Hello my fire starters. We are going to start out with an interesting burn.
Q: My partner and I are very sexually in tuned with each other but I just find it disheartening that he tells me he is not tuned on at all when I suck on his nipples. It just does nothing for him. Why?
A: Hey little stallion it seems like it is bothering you more than your partner. So some people who have inverted nipples tend to not get the same arousal sensation than those whose nipples are out. Or the fat around the nipple may have killed the sensitivity around it. You can see if your partner is aroused using ice or by nipple vibrator. But if your partner is not bothered by it maybe you should not be bothered by it either.
Q: My man has nipple piercing and I swear the minute he got them I felt like Pav lov’s dog. Mouth watering and pulse racing. I can’t stop looking at them. Is that pervy or what?
A: No, no, no. Not Pervy at all. Everyone is attracted to certain body parts and the fact that he actually accentuated his nipples was to get you to pay more attention to them in the first place. He knew exactly what he was doing.
Q: Fia my boyfriend loves to finger me to watch me have an orgasm. If it’s not his finger it a vibrator. He said it really turns him on to see what I look like when I have an orgasm. Fia is he a borderline voyeur?
A: I wouldn’t say that. If he loves watching you orgasm is not necessarily classified as a voyeur. Has he told you he like watching his other partners orgasm? If no then its something he develop being with you. If he is turned on in general watching people orgasm then yeah he a voyeur.
(Formerly known as voyeurism in DSM-IV, this disorder refers to (for over a period of at least 6 months) having recurrent, intense sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors involving the act of observing an unsuspecting person who is naked, in the process of disrobing, or engaging in sexual activity. Psych Central)
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