untitledWelcome fire starters new and old. You know how I like to do things. The match as been struck. It starts out with a small spark then rages into an inferno.

Q: Fia the summer is almost over and I felt like I spent the whole time at work instead of enjoying the sun. Help me.

A: Do you go out at lunch? I know exactly what you are talking about. The sun has rejuvenating qualities and if you’re at work and you just look out side from your desk. Your not receiving that feel good rays from the sun. The imitation lighting just doesn’t cut. Take an hour for lunch and walk around and deeply breath. When you get off of work maybe two out of three days just drop everything off and go back out. See a movie, go the a park, or a pool. Just stay out as long as you can. It helps.

Q: My cousin just told me he had sex with two people at the same time. I don’t want to be a prude but why risk contracting something?

A: Well go ahead cuz. You can not judge what your cousin does in his private life. Not all people are as daring or adventurous as other’s (even though now a days that is mild). But you should not judge. It is not you in that situation. Your wrote me hoping that I will be on your side. But I am not. I feel that everyone should do what they feel is right to them. As for contracting something did he say he had unprotected sex? Again that is his roll of the dice. Don’t judge unless you are willing to be judged your self. Every one has something hidden under the sheets. (Wink)

Q: So went to my friend’s doctor and I have to say I will never return. Tell me if I am wrong. First the receptionist was had an attitude, for what reason I don’t know and I don’t care. Then I was called in twenty minutes after my appointment. That is not the half of it. When the doctor came in he started talking to me about my problem that I did not have. He was reading from someone else’s chart. Am I wrong to say I won’t be back.

A: No you are not. Their were too many signs showing you that what is good for your friend is not good for you. For a doctor to into the exam without confirming who you are if a real big red flag. It’s waving “run, run as fast as you can.” There is nothing wrong with getting recommendations from your friends but do your own research and investigating from now on.

Q Fia is porn really as bad as everyone said’s it is?

A: No. Everything is not for every body. You should watch adults instead of the kind that makes you question the age of some of these people participating in it. Watching it is a form of escapism. Instead of reading an x-rated books, your actually seeing it on the screen. Now obsessive watching of it is another matter. That’s when you need to seek counseling to find out why your addicted to it. But if it’s for viewing occasionally then I say go for it.

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Until next burn. Bye ,bye