So I see my fire starters are seeing red. Oh my lets jump into the flames shall we?
Q: Fia normally I say what I feel and let who ever it’s meant for have it. The problem is it’s my mother. I am a grown woman with a job and no children(and no man). Yet she wants me to pay her rent, telephone bill and give her spending cash so she can go to the casino with her friends. How am I supposed to get out and live on my own if she’s sucking all my money?
A: Oh mama. It’s a shame that there are some parents that view their own children as the ATM. They figure it is time they pay them back. In reality they are creating a wall that was never there before. You should not curse out your mom but you do need to tell her that you are not giving her all that money. If you had no income where would the money come from? She needs to behave as if you’re not even there. You giving her rent is understandable if you are allowed certain freedoms that a tenant is allowed. No that is hard to swallow for them. If she does not see that you are serious, call in a counselor or minister to intervene. Someone she respects and would listen to.
Q: I do not know if its the heaviness of the heat outside or it’s people in general. I went to ask a coworker a question about something they did and I get chewed out and told figure it out myself. I was tempted to complain to the supervisor but maybe I am over reacting. What do you think?
A: Tell the supervisor. Be that snitch. Let me tell you why. Every one has a bad day. There is no excuse to take it out on you. And why you? If you confront them one on one sometimes it escalates into something that it didn’t need to. If you get you supervisor involved they would get the picture that, that behavior is not acceptable. Your coworker will either apologies or clam up every time you come near. Either way you would not have to deal with that any more.
Q: fia I have to tell you that I am a little appalled at the questions you receive and answer about sex. Why must everyone talk so freely about what goes on in the bed room? I just feel the problems we are having today is because of this openness of sex.
A: Ok that was not a question but I will answer it. Not every question is about sex. But human’s beings have sex! Sometimes it’s good and sometimes it’s bad. Often than most it’s ify. For you to be appalled is ridiculous. You have sex right? The problems we are having today is not all about the act of sex. It’s about how the sexes are communicating with each other. My opinion is that you should not live your life without some mind-blowing sex in it. It’s not all the time but it should happen often. It releases those feel good endorphin’s we all crave.
So I hope you like wicked Wednesday’s. Any questions you want answered please email me at email@example.com. I will gladly answer what bother’s you to the best of my ability. Until next we meet. Strike the match and let it burn. xoxox