So my wicked fire starters, I see that we have been busy stoking the flames. Let’s get started.
Q: Fia I need your opinion on this. I have been seeing this guy for over a month. I told him I do not want a relationship that is like the typical relationships out there. I want us to be together but to be open to see other people. He said he was ok with it. Now I started talking to this other guy who is completely his opposite and he’s acting like I’m cheating. Did I not say open? Or should I have spelled it out? How should this be handled?
A: OPENED means opened. But what he heard was, “I can see other girls and she won’t be mad. I laid it down so good she wont go to anybody else.” So you see you said it right. What he heard and understood was wrong. Maybe this is the time you should consider splitting up that relationship. I do not think he is really with “sharing” you. Sad but true.
Q: My boss has been acting as if I have education or knowledge of field. He treats me like a pion. What should I do about this? It’s really rubbing me the wrong way.
A: Look for a higher position in the company. If you spent a good amount of time under him/her and you know more. Reach for better. Allot of people hold them selves back and make them selves sick working for inconsiderate a–holes. Strive for the best you.
Q: I can’t breathe! I was always brought up with, “If you do not have nothing nice to say, then don’t say nothing at all.” Well this is not nice. This woman I sit next too at work stinks. Not under arm smell but stinks like the odor is coming from down south. You get what I mean. Is there a tactful way of approaching this?
A: Go to your supervision and them of the issue so they can broach the topic in a professional manner and you wont get sued. My mother had a close friend that smelled horrendous and she could not take it anymore. So she told her, she went to the doctor because she did not realize it was so bad that others could smell her. She went to the doctor and come to find out she had a hormonal imbalance that she never knew.
Just go the supervisor and be as tactful as you can about it. She may really do not know it is that bad.
So that is it for this weeks wicked Wednesday. If you have any questions to be answered and you want me to do it. email me at firstname.lastname@example.org. Until next we heat up the screen. xoxox