Fire starter’s we have three questions here that are very different but have the same theme. Wanting me to give permission. Hmmm? Let’s burn shall we.
Q) I consider my self a progressive thinker, but when I over hear my son having a three some and he was not the only male. It rubs me the wrong way. It wouldn’t bother me so much if it was two girls. Your thoughts?
A) If it was two girls ok. But two guys no. My thought is your not comfortable thinking that your son may like being with another man. Which is not always the case. Did you over hear if he enjoyed himself? This problem is your alone. Just hope that you taught him to protect himself and he remembered. That’s more important.
Q) I am moving to a new city and I never lived alone before. I lived in my parents house for years and I decided I needed a change. But now I’m wondering if I am making to much of a change? I will have no family around but I secured a job. I guess I am wondering should I reconsider the move?
A) You want me to give you permission to back out of your adult life. I will not do that and no one has the right to do that. Go and try it out. But not just for a week or month. Give it a good go and if it is not what you want, then go back. But at least try.
Q) I have made another new year’s resolution and I already broke it. I am terrible at it. Is it really worth doing those damn things?
A) For some yes and for the rest of us NO! I do not encourage people to do a resolution if your the type to get depressed if you can not complete it. Make a promise to your self that you will do some for a couple of days. If that works extend the promise to a week and go on from there. I think the word resolution dooms us. That’s just my opinion
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