Wicked Wednesday

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Fire starter’s we have three questions here that are very different but have the same theme. Wanting me to give permission. Hmmm? Let’s burn shall we.

Q) I consider my self a progressive thinker, but when I over hear my son having a three some and he was not the only male. It rubs me the wrong way. It wouldn’t bother me so much if it was two girls. Your thoughts?

A) If it was two girls ok. But two guys no. My thought is your not comfortable thinking that your son may like being with another man. Which is not always the case. Did you over hear if he enjoyed himself? This problem is your alone. Just hope that you taught him to protect himself and he remembered. That’s more important.

Q) I am moving to a new city and I never lived alone before. I lived in my parents house for years and I decided I needed a change. But now I’m wondering if I am making to much of a change? I will have no family around but I secured a job. I guess I am wondering should I reconsider the move?

A) You want me to give you permission to back out of your adult life. I will not do that and no one has the right to do that. Go and try it out. But not just for a week or month. Give it a good go and if it is not what you want, then go back. But at least try.

Q) I have made another new year’s resolution and I already broke it. I am terrible at it. Is it really worth doing those damn things?

A) For some yes and for the rest of us NO! I do not encourage people to do a resolution if your the type to get depressed if you can not complete it. Make a promise to your self that you will do some for a couple of days. If that works extend the promise to a week and go on from there. I think the word resolution dooms us. That’s just my opinion

If you like what you’ve read please star and comment. If you want your question to be chosen on wicked Wednesday email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com. Until next time. Keep the fire burning. FiaXOXO

Wicked Wednesday (Let’s Burn)

Welcome fire starters. The topics of to day will leave you with a Hmmm? Let’s get started.

Q) Fia, I hope you picked this question. So I am adventurous when it comes to life in general. So there is this thing called the lelo sona that my “friend” bought me and I wanted your thoughts on it?

A) Okay. This toy is supposed to simulate oral sex. It also has a sonic wave and pulses. I personally have not used it. So this is advice is to be taken a bit lightly. If you get a toy that does this and it takes you over to orgasmic paradise. Kudos and all steam ahead. But I do worry about desensitization in the area. Don’t over do it I guess I am saying and let me know how you like it.(wink) 

Q) I have a problem. My best friend told me she has chlamydia and she gotten the treatment for it. She’s been sleeping with the neighbors son. Now she is married and had not had sex with her husband for a bit.(that’s what she told me). Now hubby wants to take her on vacation to spend time with her. She has not told the neighbors son about it and she is scared shitless she will give it to her husband. Advice please.

A) Tell the guy next door. So he could be treated. It takes 7 days for meds to cure it. But if she has sex during treatment, she will infect her husband. Now that being said what shady shit is that? This is 2019. If he is not doing it for her then leave. Men do sense when things are not right.(if they are still into you.) Not advocating that men are saints. But that just so teenage soap opera type of thing. It’s time to grow up.

Q) My daughter is seeing a guy that is alright. I have no problems with him but my son is talking to the guys sister. Should I intervene and nip this in the bud?  Isn’t that wrong or am I that old fashion?

A) Well talking does not mean that they are in a relationship. Even if they get in a relationship it does not mean that they are getting married and having kids. If that makes you feel better. But what if it should happen. It’s not really bad. They are not blood related. Just breath and let things go there natural course.

So my fire starters. we dealt with toys, std’s and meddling in relationships. If you like what you are reading and have a question you liked answered. please email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com. Until next we burn. Fia xoxo

Wicked Wednesday has Returned

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Welcome Fire starters and Happy New Year. sorry I have been away to long but I see you have kept the questions flowing. Before I start I wanted to answer a question that I was given with this, I do not comment on race, religion or politics. This particular question dealt with politics and I decline to answer due to personal reasons.  Now saying this why don’t we burn the roof off 2019 with these questions.

Q: Fia quick question. Is there a reason why men don’t cum quickly when getting a blow job?

A: Aren’t you in torment? Lol, Your jaw must be in agony. Well to answer this honestly there are several reasons. They may be good at holding back their orgasm as long as they could. They may have recently had sex and they are not so easily aroused enough to shoot quick and ask questions later. Or they may have a blockage that prevents them from coming quickly. There are those men who are quick as lightning and that aggravates their partners. So it’s just the roll of the dice what type of shooter you get.(wink)

Q: Why do the older generation call sex bumping “uglies?”

A: So people do not think the sexual organ is pleasing to the eye. So dubbed “Uglies”. I on the other hand do not share this view. It is supposed to arouse you to see how turned on by the thought of feeling you around them or inside them. I mean look at it this way if every body thought it was ugly why is everybody going down there to have a taste. We all eat with our eyes first. Yes?

Q: I have a habit of thrusting to hard in my girl to the point I see her bleed a little. I ask her if it’s too much but she tell me no. That’s definitely not normal right?

A: No it’s not normal to see blood. But if she is not telling you the truth that it’s hurting you may need to find out why. Or She may need to see a doctor. There maybe an underlying issue that she does not know herself that is causing the bleeding. If you trust what she said about it not too much for her to handle.

If you have any questions that you would like answered please email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com

Wicked Wednesday

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Hello my fire starters. It has been a while since I left you burning. Here are three question that should keep you going. Let’s burn

Q: The holiday season usually puts me in the mood. This holiday it seems that not only am I not in the mood. My guy is acting he is not in the mood as well. How should I take that? I look good. Kept my figure and make sure that we spend time together. Why is he acting like he doesn’t want me?

A: There is a lot of holes in this question. Your not in the mood. Are you stressed, tired or bored with sex. Same question for him is he stressed, tired or bored with sex. When is the last time you wore something sexy? Or did a surprise Bj out of no where? When’s the last time you had sex in a place that you felt was taboo? Do you feel sexy? Does he still make you hot? Do you tell him that or show him that? food for thought, the holiday’s don’t always do it for every one and if you always do it on the holidays, it gets tired real fast.

Q: I just kissed my boss. My boss is married and female. I have a feeling I may not have a job on Monday morning. Help, need damage control.

A: Did you initiated the kiss. Did she seem into it? Maybe your reading to much of the negative into this. If you feel you are in the wrong go and apologies and make it heart felt. But if your reading it right, maybe you need to look for something else. First you’ll lose your job and second she’s married. Your headed for a world of hurt.

Q: Can I sue a lube company? Specifically an anal lube company. It did not help deaden the area at all.

A: You can sue any one but let’s calm down. First, if it said response differs for every one. You won’t win. Secondly you don’t want it deaden that area because if you have no feeling how would you now if you were torn? Are you going to be ok to tell the doctor how you were torn? So think before you act on this.

That is all for now. If you have any questions please feel free to email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com. until next time keep the fires burning. Fia xoxox

Wicked Wednesday Barn burner

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Sorry my fire starters that you are getting this barn burner so late. But I aim to please so let’s get these questions answered.

Q:Fia I am stuck with this. I bought my girl this expensive bracelet for the holiday’s but I forgotten to get my mom something. I really didn’t expect to see her until after the holiday’s but she showed up. surprize. So should I give my mom the bracelet or give it to my girl? Either way I am gonna upset someone. Once the other sees the bracelet I will be in trouble with the other. Which one?

A: Neither. Tell them that it is tight with your finances right now and what you can afford is to take them both out to dinner. Then when your mom leaves give it to your girl. Problem solved.

Q: How do I tell him that he should go back to his wife? It’s not working out.

A: Oy vay. Be honest and just tell him that he should leave or you leave. You didn’t tell me much back story but it sounds like he is still in love with her and things just went sideways.

Q: I am torn between my girl of three years and the guy I have been seeing for a few months. I want them both but I don’t think that they both will go for it.Need advice.

A: So you willing to hurt two people because you’re not willing to be honest to either one of them? Listen sit down and really think this through. Is it worth loosing your girl of three years for a guy of a few months. If yes, cut her loose. If no, cut him loose. You can tell them both about each other and see what happens? Then your taking your own life into your own hands.

So that it for today. If you have any questions you want answered please  email mea at fianaturie1@gmail.com. Until next time keep the fire burning. Fia Xoxo

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Wicked Wednesday(One’s mouth can cause trouble)

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So should we start the fire roaring?

Q: I am normally an introverted type of person. But I was pushed so far out of my comfort zone that I literally exploded. Here is the question. I accidentally out of anger yelled out the person sexual escapades in the office and caused her to be called into the office by human resources. Am I sorry I did it? No, I am not but how should I act when I get confronted by my boss about the whole situation? I feel like I opened Pandora’s box and she may get fired because of me. Help.

A: This is hard for an introverted person to deal with. Especially when your actions may have an outcome that you never really expected. When confronted by your boss about the situation be honest. I’m pretty sure they knew what was going on and was acting as if they did not. Be prepared to be written up for your heated slip of the tongue. Stick to your guns.

Q: I have been verbally harassed by my next door neighbor. She is an attractive woman but I told her that I am not into women and that seemed to turn her on more like it was a challenge. How can I get her off my sh–?

A: Well as harsh as this may sound but you did tell her you’re not into woman. You can be a little skanky with it and bring a guy or two around. If your married you can tell your hubby to tell her to back off of you. Last resort is to get up in her face and prove you mean business and back off of you.

Q: Fia I am very frustrated with giving oral. First off I do not like the feeling of someone pushing my head down. Second the time it takes to get him to go is getting longer and longer. My jaw hurts. Third and final I am feeling some kind of way when he is trying to compare me to some porn star. I am not skilled like that. What should I do?

A: Frustrated are we? First what’s up with hand mouth combo? Yes it is perfectly fine to use both.Secondly tell him not to shove you down on him. He may be getting off on the gagging sound. Some guys do. Practice that sound it does help get him off. Third porn star comparison is not cool. Is he fantasizing about her instead of you? Not nice at all. Whether he’s big (two hands) or not so big (one hand) you should find some kind of enjoyment in giving oral. He does it for you right?

That’s all for today my fire starters. If you have any questions you like to be answered please feel free to email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com

Fantasy Friday (Ladies night)

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The mating ceremony is only a day away. Le’em beasts seemed to be causing havoc inside her. They are extremely happy about finding their mates. Le’em, on the other hand, has reservations about the situation. She has never been with a male and now she had to be with two and two beasts on top of that. Just the thought of it was making her ill from nerves.

A beep came from the door of Le’em’s quarters. She pulled her thoughts together as best as she could before she answered the door. Once the door opened she was face to face with three women. Two that she knew and one that was new to her.

“Hi Le’em I thought this would be a good time to talk to you about the ceremony tomorrow,” Jayla said as she kept looking into her eyes gauging how Le’em was feeling.

“Please come inside.”

Once the ladies were inside they stood before Le’em making her feel more nervous than what she wanted.

“So I know Jayla and Januk. But I don’t recall ever meeting you before.”

“I am Cardidia. I am the healer for the godor people. Also, I am the advisor to our young females of the clan. I was told by Loeum that you were raised with the humans and he thought my insight on the godor mating would be valuable at this time.”

Le’em unconsciously rubbed her arm across her stomach try to relax.

“Thank you, for coming. I guess Jayla and Januk are here to give me information as well.”

They both nodded in unison.

“Before we start why don’t we all sit and have something to drink.”

“I’m sorry. Would you all please sit. I have water. Is that alright.”

“She is so sweet, Loeum picked a perfect mate.” The godor healer said with a smile.

“Agreed, Elphin will be a nice balance. She would calm his temper.” Jayla injected.

“Water will not do for this situation. I have brought the wine of Anore. It has been in my home since I was born. So it is aged well.”

“Anor wine. I have not had any since I was a young female.” Cadidia said as she found some cups to pour the liquid in.

“You had Anor wine? But your godor?”

“Like I said I had it when I was a young female. I had to scratched an itch with a Anorie male. But that is a story for another situation.”

The woman looked shocked by this woman’s blatant admission of her experiences.

Le’em took a healthy gulp of the smooth wine. That seemed to not only calm her but warm her insides. The beasts were purring in enjoyment.

“So, Le’em is there any questions. That is why we are here.”

She felt her cheeks redden and stomach tightened. She found that she wanted to ask so many things but how would she put it without them looking at her as if she was an idiot.

“Let me start. You have never been with a male and unsure you can handle it.”

She nodded and took a sip of her drink.

“First of all, it is as natural as breathing. The beasts inside of you will guide you in animal form.” Januk said then took a sip of her wine.

“Okay the beast knows what to do, but I will be in human form to mate with the men. Have any of you been in that situation?” She said it pleading with a yes from someone.

“Yes” all three women said and her heart almost stopped from shock.

“What?”

“Well being on the ship I needed to get energy and I was told by the captain that the males on the ship was off limits. When the ship docked on a planet the captain gave me leave. I would mate with males on these planets often. The only problem was one male would not suffice so I had to have two to get me to an optimal energy level.” Jayla said then looked at Januk.

“I was young and I like two anorie sibling males. My beast wanted both of them. Not for a lifelong mate but for mating heat. It was a very healthy pairing. I left the mating the next morning with a smile and memory that I can never erase from my mind. ” She looked down at her drink and smiled.

“Do you see them?”

“Yes, they have found their lifemates but it was amazing.”

The ladies looked at Cordidia.

“I guess it is my time. It happed in my first heat cycle. I was out looking for some herbs that my mother sent me out for. It only grew by the lake. When I got there, he was there fishing. He smiled and I went over to talk to him. One thing leads to another and we started kissing. We thought we were alone but the other male that I like was watching from the trees. My beast knew he was there before I did. I stopped and looked for him.

He came out into the opening and he told us that he would not tell anyone. But his eyes looked defeated. So the male I was with asked if he like me and did he wish to be with me. He nodded. So he was going to step aside but that was not making my beast happy. So we ended up being in a pile by the water. Once it was over I jumped in the freezing water to wash their scents off. ”

“Why dod you do that? Were you not old enough?”

“Yes I was, but once their scent is on you it drives you crazy with wanting them. Again”

“So you guys just left them so casually. There was no fighting. Everything went well.”

“Well Godor male love to share their females. It is a natural thing for us.”

“The Anorie male is one female to male but Elphin is willing to tramp down that possessive side to be with you.”

“I’m worried they will fight.”

“You will mate with them individually in beast form. Then when the sun falls you will mate with both males in human form.”

“Jayla will it hurt?”

“They will want to take you at once to claim you at the same time. As long as you make them take it slow it will be enjoyable.”

“My advice let Loeum take you from the back as Elphim takes the front.”

“Our males have a knack for making it feel enjoyable.”

“Yes let Elphim take the front. He will be more aggressive and since it will be your first time he may tear you.” Januk agreed.

The women took another swig and Le’em felt slightly wobbly. She began giggling and the women continued there tutelage Into the night. They put Le’em to bed, as they snuck out.

The ladies knew that she will be fine.

“Thank you Candidia for coming. What happens to those two males. Did you ever mate with them again?” Januk asked.

“Yes, every night.”

“Oh.” They laughed in realization that they became her lifemates.

Jayla said goodnight and went to her mate. Her beast longed for the touch of its mate.

Candidia left as well leaving Januk alone to look at the stars.

“Is everything alright?” A male voice asked from behind her.

She knew who it was.

“Yes”

“Tomorrow will be beautiful.”

“You’re beautiful.”

She smiled and turned to look into the eyes of the male she became very fond of.

“Goodnight, Red.”

“Goodnight Janu.”

They both parted but knew that they will be the next to join. It will be private and announced after it was done. Tomorrow was for the young.

So fire starters are you ready for the mating? Comments are welcomed and hit that like button. Referring people to my site is a great form of a compliment. Thank you all.

Wicked Wednesday

It’s Wicked Wednesday people. The questions are lit,(literally) Lets begin shall we

Q: Fia my husband has made the announcement that he is going to cook thanks giving turkey this year. Fia I love this man but he can not cook. The food ends up bland and burnt. We are having people from his job over and I don’t want him to be the butt of their jokes. How can I convince him that it would be a bad idea?

A: Honestly at this moment time is of the essence. Tell him you want him to do a trial run with Cornish hens. When he sees that the birds did not come out right it may change his mind. If that does not work put your foot down and say You always take if the turkey and this year is no different. Or pull out the tears. Guilt him to change his mind.

Q: I am going to my cousin’s house for thanks giving. That’s not the issue. The issue is my cousin has this cat and her house smells of cat and I can not breath in her house. I told her that I may not come and she laid a guilt trip on me so thick, I got a headache. Help me get out of this.

A: Desprite times calls for desprite measures. Bring in the big guns. Call your mother and tell her you are not feeling well and you need to get rest. If she said that you can get rest there. You counter by saying that your doctor said you need to stay home because it sounds as if you were at the beginning stages of a respiratory virus. Since your cousin has the cat it would aggravate the situation. Hope that helps.

Q: I was invited to the screening of my best friends off-Broadway play. Here is the problem. I don’t want to go. If it’s bad I’ll tell her it’s bad. If it’s good I’ll tell her it’s good. If I feel it should never have gone to theater I would tell her. I don’t want to lose a friend. What do you think?

A: I think you should go. If your that close she may want that honesty from you. If she doesn’t speak to you again, she was never really a friend right? So my opinion go. You never know it might be the best thing you’ve ever seen.

If you have any question please feel free to ask me at fianaturie1@gmail.com. All are welcomed.

Wicked Wednesday (A fire day Indeed!)

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Hello fire Starters lets get the fire red hot shall we. I think kink is the name of these flames today.

Q: Fia normally I do not mind being tied up during sex but I did not like the chocking part. Even my body didn’t react the same. Became dry as the desert. How would you approach this situation?

A: Tell him that is a hard limit. You don’t want to be choked out during sex. Most people do not get aroused by it. He would understand. Especially if you guys are into rope play.

Q: I am six months pregnant and horny as hell. But my man said he is having a hard time with the belly. He’s not getting aroused. I need help. Not the mechanical kind either.

A: He is having an “Holy Mother” issue. Which is I can not touch her because she is carrying my child and it’s sacred. Now the only thing I see working is going to a sex therapist. Also getting some Viagra wouldn’t hurt.

Q: I was out in the park and my boyfriend dared me to masturbate in front of him. So I did. But this old lady caught me and she knows my mother. Do you think I should say something to her?

A:Ooooo. Girl talk to that woman and apologies. Maybe she can not see well and you’ll get away with it. I hoped you enjoyed the risk. I am happy not to be your right now.

Q: So I bought these tight leather pants that shows off my endowment. But I can’t get in them. The counter girl was eyeing me but I don’t swing that way and I am avoiding going back. How do you get into these pants?

A: Really? Baby powder. If they are to small you have to return them before you break your well endowment and can’t use it at all.

If you have any question you would like to be answered you can direct email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com or send me a message without attaching a name. Until next we meet. Bring the on the heat.

 

Wicked Wednesday (All About the Skin)

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Hello my fire starters and we have excellent questions to answer today. The type of questions that make you scratch your head and say “Ummmm”. So here we go.

Q: Hi fia, I have been using this hair product my cousin made at home to help thicken my hair. I have very thin hair. Not only is it not thinking up my hair but I see a bald patch. What should I do? Tell her that her stuff made my hair fall out.

A: First stop using the product. Secondly, go to your doctor so they can do a blood test on you to see if your levels are where they should be. If they then go see and dermatologist that specializes in scalp issues. Depending on how it is falling out you could be going through male pattern baldness or alopecia. I am not a doctor but I will always direct you in seeing one if the problem sounds severe.

Q: My husband only wants to have sex from behind. It just started recently. Should I be concerned?

A: The question is has he developed a new kink. As people get older what they used to like may change. Also, has he gained weight? he may not want to suffocate you. The best answer is to ask what’s the deal and do not be confrontational about it. It may be as simple as you respond more from getting from the back than the front.

Q:   I went to the doctor today because my girl scraped the skin off my dick with her teeth. At first, I was ignoring it but then it was getting red, hot and swollen. Turns out I was getting a topical infection. Should I let her know? I mean women can become crazy when you accuse them of something.

A: LET HER KNOW. That your dick. It could have been more serious. She may get upset and embarrassed but let her know.

That’s it for today my fire starters. Until next time keep the fires burning. Any questions you want to be answered please email at fianaturie1@gmail.com.