Part 2 to A Secret Kiss will be let out by tonight. Loving the build.
Part 2 to A Secret Kiss will be let out by tonight. Loving the build.
Hello to all my fire starters out there. I am sorry that I have left you so long that the fire has died down to ash. Let’s throw some new longs on the fire shall we. Fia is ready to set it a blaze.
Q: Fia I hope you have not permantly stopped with your site. Here is my Q that needs your A urgently. My problem is Dryness. Yes I am so dry when I has sex with my friend that I have to have lube. Now just recently I had oral sex with another friend of mine. (Which his/her tongue should be length checked) I was sooo wet he said it was more than a mouth full. WTF? I am confused help.
A: How long is that tongue honey? Got me wondering. Here is what I think is happening. The first guy is on go with out trying to push your button to see if your ready. Forplay is the BEST play. It sends the signals that you are about to get it on, get it poppin, get something. Now there are people who have a depleated estrogen supply and that has to be brought to your doctor’s attention but if it’s whamo and your as dry as burnt toast it’s not cute. Your gonna get hurt and emotionally it does not make you feel like your worth his time to get you aroused. You need to talk to him and see what is his/her problem?
Q: How contageous is Herpies?
Q: I went out on a casual dinner with a friend and I was not looking to have anything go further than that. It was nice so I gave the person my number. Now the person will not stop calling me. How can I let this person down nice?
A: First why did you give your number? Everyone gives out fake numbers and you had to be the honest one. Just be truthful. You had a good time but that was it you do not want anything more and please loose your number. Then block this person’s number. (Hopefully it was a cell phone number.)
Q: Please take this seriously even though I know it’s funny as hell. I was with my girl and my back went out when I was on top so I pulled out . My girl said it was ok and proceeded to take out a vibrator to finish what we started. Now I am a fair nice size but her sh– was huge. I am feeling some kind of way. Should I just leave it alone or confront her about it?
A: Your back went out? Wooo. What is bothering you? The fact she had a vibrator or that it was huge? Talk to her about it but don’t confront her. Your her man not her father. If she is still having sex with you then you are satisfying her or she would be having a talk with you.
So I hope the fire is blazzzzing. If you have any questions you want answered and do not want to post it publicly here. Please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org. Until next time keep it lit.
Fire starter’s we have three questions here that are very different but have the same theme. Wanting me to give permission. Hmmm? Let’s burn shall we.
Q) I consider my self a progressive thinker, but when I over hear my son having a three some and he was not the only male. It rubs me the wrong way. It wouldn’t bother me so much if it was two girls. Your thoughts?
A) If it was two girls ok. But two guys no. My thought is your not comfortable thinking that your son may like being with another man. Which is not always the case. Did you over hear if he enjoyed himself? This problem is your alone. Just hope that you taught him to protect himself and he remembered. That’s more important.
Q) I am moving to a new city and I never lived alone before. I lived in my parents house for years and I decided I needed a change. But now I’m wondering if I am making to much of a change? I will have no family around but I secured a job. I guess I am wondering should I reconsider the move?
A) You want me to give you permission to back out of your adult life. I will not do that and no one has the right to do that. Go and try it out. But not just for a week or month. Give it a good go and if it is not what you want, then go back. But at least try.
Q) I have made another new year’s resolution and I already broke it. I am terrible at it. Is it really worth doing those damn things?
A) For some yes and for the rest of us NO! I do not encourage people to do a resolution if your the type to get depressed if you can not complete it. Make a promise to your self that you will do some for a couple of days. If that works extend the promise to a week and go on from there. I think the word resolution dooms us. That’s just my opinion
If you like what you’ve read please star and comment. If you want your question to be chosen on wicked Wednesday email me at email@example.com. Until next time. Keep the fire burning. FiaXOXO
For twenty one years and nine months his heart beat in a steady uninterrupted pace showing evidence that the abomination is alive. Yet the two women who were chosen to raise him did not do what was required of them. They never told a soul. Now the task was given to Ina. A being who’s life’s purpose is to observe and never intentionally interfere with another’s path in life.
“Ina what is the deal? You do not need my help serving the swamp people. Besides their slimy.”
“Creya he was not told of his quest. He honestly does not know what is to become of him.”
Creya heart sped a bit from the information. “What are we going to do?”
“I am not supposed to interfere.”
“Shit.” Creya said.
“If you don’t my suggestion.” Mojuno, one of the swamp pixie said.
“What do you suggest?” Ina asked as she listened closely.
“The truth can be told in the blood.”
Creya stood there with her eyebrows raised. “So are you volunteering?”
The pixie walked off eating a piece of the bread that Ina just brought out.
“She’s right but it can not be mine. I know to much I can not sift out the information.”
“Well I’m in the same boat. I know allot as well.”
“No you are perfect. You’ve lived only one life cycle. sifting out the information that is not needed would be easy.”
“Easy for you.” Creya said as her face shown how the whole idea of giving her blood disturbed her.
“Enough. You will do this. We will have it by morning. Now go back to the kitchen and get him to go to bed.”
“I protest this whole heartedly. My blood is precious to me.”
“Everyone feels the same but this is the part you are given, in his path.”
A cup and a half of self rising flour, a spoon of sugar, a drizzle of almond extract, a quarter size dab of butter and mix. The base was done and baking in the oven. The look of the wicked knife going towards Creya unmarred arm had her pulse racing.
At first nothing then the burn came as her precious blood fell into the mixing bowl. Once there was enough Ina spat on the wound sealing it immediately.
“That was gross.”
“Shhh.” Ina said as she whispered words that have not been heard for a millennia. The blood bubbled and burst. Giving off puff of smoke. Once the blood was at the perfect consistency she scooped out a tablespoon size amounts and placed it in the center of the cookie.
“So what is that?”
“Blood Cookie’s. It holds one tale in each. The same tale mind you. Jan will have to eat one of them and he will finally know what has been hidden from him.”
They both looked at the creation not knowing what the morning for Adorjan will be.
The sun rose quickly, but Adorjan did not. Creya walked into his room with a tray of coffee and cookies. She placed it on the bed stand next to him.
“Jan wake up. I don’t have water with me this time to splash on you.”
He smiled at the memory of last night.
“Why are you always near me when I am sleeping?”
“Oh, just get up and have some coffee.” She said as she walked towards the window and looked out at the people passing by.
Adorjan drank the coffee but was not ready to eat cookies. He really did not like sweets. Creya turned noticing that he did not take one.
“You need to eat at least one cookie, so I wont have to lie to Ina about you liking them.”
He picked it up and looked it over. “Is this raspberry filling?”
She hated lying in general. “Just eat it. Jan do you question everything?”
He smiled at her and ate it whole. The cookie was sweet but it was not raspberry. He drank the coffee to wash the taste down.
“That was not…not” The room began to spin.
“Sorry, Jan but you had to know. Just rest now. You’ll wake soon enough.” Creya rest head on the pillow then took the cookies and coffee away.
The sun couldn’t have risen fast enough for Mimi. Abella had went to her chambers to bed for the day.
Mimi managed to get to Paul, the errand boy. He was about to leave to get supplies for the kitchen staff.
“Paul go to Michael and tell him the sun is covering the moon.”
“What is that supposed to mean?”
“Just do as I say.”
“Alright Mimi. But you can be so odd some times.”
Mimi ran back into the house making sure that no beast noticed what transpired. She knew that a spy can come in all forms. All forms of creature can be enlisted as one.
“Mimi where have you been? I had not seen you in ages.”
“I have been around.”
“Do you, Cleo?” Mimi said as she walked past.
“So your interested in Paul?”
“No, he’s a bit to young. You know what I like.” Mimi said as her hand caressed her cheek.
“You have not been interested in a while.”
“Oh I’ve been interested. Just too much cake make you sick but cake in appropriate moderation increases the delight. Mimi leaned in and captured her lips making sure to nip her. She loved the taste of blood.
So my lovely fire starters. Adorjan will finally learn what was kept from him and Mimi was almost caught. How are you liking it so far? Please Like and tell me if your enjoying this series. Until next we meet Fia xoxo
Welcome Fire starters and Happy New Year. sorry I have been away to long but I see you have kept the questions flowing. Before I start I wanted to answer a question that I was given with this, I do not comment on race, religion or politics. This particular question dealt with politics and I decline to answer due to personal reasons. Now saying this why don’t we burn the roof off 2019 with these questions.
Q: Fia quick question. Is there a reason why men don’t cum quickly when getting a blow job?
A: Aren’t you in torment? Lol, Your jaw must be in agony. Well to answer this honestly there are several reasons. They may be good at holding back their orgasm as long as they could. They may have recently had sex and they are not so easily aroused enough to shoot quick and ask questions later. Or they may have a blockage that prevents them from coming quickly. There are those men who are quick as lightning and that aggravates their partners. So it’s just the roll of the dice what type of shooter you get.(wink)
Q: Why do the older generation call sex bumping “uglies?”
A: So people do not think the sexual organ is pleasing to the eye. So dubbed “Uglies”. I on the other hand do not share this view. It is supposed to arouse you to see how turned on by the thought of feeling you around them or inside them. I mean look at it this way if every body thought it was ugly why is everybody going down there to have a taste. We all eat with our eyes first. Yes?
Q: I have a habit of thrusting to hard in my girl to the point I see her bleed a little. I ask her if it’s too much but she tell me no. That’s definitely not normal right?
A: No it’s not normal to see blood. But if she is not telling you the truth that it’s hurting you may need to find out why. Or She may need to see a doctor. There maybe an underlying issue that she does not know herself that is causing the bleeding. If you trust what she said about it not too much for her to handle.
If you have any questions that you would like answered please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
Hello my fire starters. It has been a while since I left you burning. Here are three question that should keep you going. Let’s burn
Q: The holiday season usually puts me in the mood. This holiday it seems that not only am I not in the mood. My guy is acting he is not in the mood as well. How should I take that? I look good. Kept my figure and make sure that we spend time together. Why is he acting like he doesn’t want me?
A: There is a lot of holes in this question. Your not in the mood. Are you stressed, tired or bored with sex. Same question for him is he stressed, tired or bored with sex. When is the last time you wore something sexy? Or did a surprise Bj out of no where? When’s the last time you had sex in a place that you felt was taboo? Do you feel sexy? Does he still make you hot? Do you tell him that or show him that? food for thought, the holiday’s don’t always do it for every one and if you always do it on the holidays, it gets tired real fast.
Q: I just kissed my boss. My boss is married and female. I have a feeling I may not have a job on Monday morning. Help, need damage control.
A: Did you initiated the kiss. Did she seem into it? Maybe your reading to much of the negative into this. If you feel you are in the wrong go and apologies and make it heart felt. But if your reading it right, maybe you need to look for something else. First you’ll lose your job and second she’s married. Your headed for a world of hurt.
Q: Can I sue a lube company? Specifically an anal lube company. It did not help deaden the area at all.
A: You can sue any one but let’s calm down. First, if it said response differs for every one. You won’t win. Secondly you don’t want it deaden that area because if you have no feeling how would you now if you were torn? Are you going to be ok to tell the doctor how you were torn? So think before you act on this.
That is all for now. If you have any questions please feel free to email me at email@example.com. until next time keep the fires burning. Fia xoxox
Sorry my fire starters that you are getting this barn burner so late. But I aim to please so let’s get these questions answered.
Q:Fia I am stuck with this. I bought my girl this expensive bracelet for the holiday’s but I forgotten to get my mom something. I really didn’t expect to see her until after the holiday’s but she showed up. surprize. So should I give my mom the bracelet or give it to my girl? Either way I am gonna upset someone. Once the other sees the bracelet I will be in trouble with the other. Which one?
A: Neither. Tell them that it is tight with your finances right now and what you can afford is to take them both out to dinner. Then when your mom leaves give it to your girl. Problem solved.
Q: How do I tell him that he should go back to his wife? It’s not working out.
A: Oy vay. Be honest and just tell him that he should leave or you leave. You didn’t tell me much back story but it sounds like he is still in love with her and things just went sideways.
Q: I am torn between my girl of three years and the guy I have been seeing for a few months. I want them both but I don’t think that they both will go for it.Need advice.
A: So you willing to hurt two people because you’re not willing to be honest to either one of them? Listen sit down and really think this through. Is it worth loosing your girl of three years for a guy of a few months. If yes, cut her loose. If no, cut him loose. You can tell them both about each other and see what happens? Then your taking your own life into your own hands.
So that it for today. If you have any questions you want answered please email mea at firstname.lastname@example.org. Until next time keep the fire burning. Fia Xoxo
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So should we start the fire roaring?
Q: I am normally an introverted type of person. But I was pushed so far out of my comfort zone that I literally exploded. Here is the question. I accidentally out of anger yelled out the person sexual escapades in the office and caused her to be called into the office by human resources. Am I sorry I did it? No, I am not but how should I act when I get confronted by my boss about the whole situation? I feel like I opened Pandora’s box and she may get fired because of me. Help.
A: This is hard for an introverted person to deal with. Especially when your actions may have an outcome that you never really expected. When confronted by your boss about the situation be honest. I’m pretty sure they knew what was going on and was acting as if they did not. Be prepared to be written up for your heated slip of the tongue. Stick to your guns.
Q: I have been verbally harassed by my next door neighbor. She is an attractive woman but I told her that I am not into women and that seemed to turn her on more like it was a challenge. How can I get her off my sh–?
A: Well as harsh as this may sound but you did tell her you’re not into woman. You can be a little skanky with it and bring a guy or two around. If your married you can tell your hubby to tell her to back off of you. Last resort is to get up in her face and prove you mean business and back off of you.
Q: Fia I am very frustrated with giving oral. First off I do not like the feeling of someone pushing my head down. Second the time it takes to get him to go is getting longer and longer. My jaw hurts. Third and final I am feeling some kind of way when he is trying to compare me to some porn star. I am not skilled like that. What should I do?
A: Frustrated are we? First what’s up with hand mouth combo? Yes it is perfectly fine to use both.Secondly tell him not to shove you down on him. He may be getting off on the gagging sound. Some guys do. Practice that sound it does help get him off. Third porn star comparison is not cool. Is he fantasizing about her instead of you? Not nice at all. Whether he’s big (two hands) or not so big (one hand) you should find some kind of enjoyment in giving oral. He does it for you right?
That’s all for today my fire starters. If you have any questions you like to be answered please feel free to email me at email@example.com
It’s Wicked Wednesday people. The questions are lit,(literally) Lets begin shall we
Q: Fia my husband has made the announcement that he is going to cook thanks giving turkey this year. Fia I love this man but he can not cook. The food ends up bland and burnt. We are having people from his job over and I don’t want him to be the butt of their jokes. How can I convince him that it would be a bad idea?
A: Honestly at this moment time is of the essence. Tell him you want him to do a trial run with Cornish hens. When he sees that the birds did not come out right it may change his mind. If that does not work put your foot down and say You always take if the turkey and this year is no different. Or pull out the tears. Guilt him to change his mind.
Q: I am going to my cousin’s house for thanks giving. That’s not the issue. The issue is my cousin has this cat and her house smells of cat and I can not breath in her house. I told her that I may not come and she laid a guilt trip on me so thick, I got a headache. Help me get out of this.
A: Desprite times calls for desprite measures. Bring in the big guns. Call your mother and tell her you are not feeling well and you need to get rest. If she said that you can get rest there. You counter by saying that your doctor said you need to stay home because it sounds as if you were at the beginning stages of a respiratory virus. Since your cousin has the cat it would aggravate the situation. Hope that helps.
Q: I was invited to the screening of my best friends off-Broadway play. Here is the problem. I don’t want to go. If it’s bad I’ll tell her it’s bad. If it’s good I’ll tell her it’s good. If I feel it should never have gone to theater I would tell her. I don’t want to lose a friend. What do you think?
A: I think you should go. If your that close she may want that honesty from you. If she doesn’t speak to you again, she was never really a friend right? So my opinion go. You never know it might be the best thing you’ve ever seen.
If you have any question please feel free to ask me at firstname.lastname@example.org. All are welcomed.
Hello fire Starters lets get the fire red hot shall we. I think kink is the name of these flames today.
Q: Fia normally I do not mind being tied up during sex but I did not like the chocking part. Even my body didn’t react the same. Became dry as the desert. How would you approach this situation?
A: Tell him that is a hard limit. You don’t want to be choked out during sex. Most people do not get aroused by it. He would understand. Especially if you guys are into rope play.
Q: I am six months pregnant and horny as hell. But my man said he is having a hard time with the belly. He’s not getting aroused. I need help. Not the mechanical kind either.
A: He is having an “Holy Mother” issue. Which is I can not touch her because she is carrying my child and it’s sacred. Now the only thing I see working is going to a sex therapist. Also getting some Viagra wouldn’t hurt.
Q: I was out in the park and my boyfriend dared me to masturbate in front of him. So I did. But this old lady caught me and she knows my mother. Do you think I should say something to her?
A:Ooooo. Girl talk to that woman and apologies. Maybe she can not see well and you’ll get away with it. I hoped you enjoyed the risk. I am happy not to be your right now.
Q: So I bought these tight leather pants that shows off my endowment. But I can’t get in them. The counter girl was eyeing me but I don’t swing that way and I am avoiding going back. How do you get into these pants?
A: Really? Baby powder. If they are to small you have to return them before you break your well endowment and can’t use it at all.
If you have any question you would like to be answered you can direct email me at email@example.com or send me a message without attaching a name. Until next we meet. Bring the on the heat.