Wicked Wednesday (Hmmm?)

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Hello once again fire starters. As you see on top I have a questions to be answered but will the answers satisfy the burn? Let’s get the fire blazing.

Q: Fia I started waist training and I have mixed emotions about it. What is your opinion on waist training?

A: Well let’s take it this way. Waist training in the past was to train your body to have that hour glass figure by cinching it up. Now this does cause your internal organs to shift. But that was the fashion in those days. Now today waist training is used in terms of losing weight. I am not really for it. Why ? You put it on to sweat and your supposed to take it off. Some people keep it on longer than what it was intended to be used for. Causing pain and muscle weakness.  If your just using it for style. Not for it either. It is not healthy not being able to breath do to it being so tight.

Q: I am a man in my thirties that is in good shape. My problem is my gut. It is out a bit and I cant do to much exercise because of back problems. What do you think about men having liposuction?

A: I personally feel fine with it. But it is really up to you, isn’t it? If they take out a large amount of fat, make sure you inquire about the elasticity of your skin. Don’t get rid of one problem for another. Also, how many time would you need to get it done? For it to be what you want and how safe is it to have multiple sessions? Yeah gave you more to think about and you should. Plastic surgery is something you should think on before diving into it. That’s my opinion.

Q: This is disgusting question but I find that I think about germs more now since I started riding the train and stopped driving. My question is how toxic is farts? I mean really people just let it go like everyone is ok with it.

A: Okay, I had to read this twice.(Due to the out burst of laughter) Flatulence (farts) are good for us . Sounds weird, but scientist have found that a compound we produce in small quantities in our gas, hydrogen sulfide, might actually protect us from later illness. So that smelly stuff is actually ok. Now lets discuss the stuff you may find on the poles or seats. That’s more dangerous. If you still don’t believe it you can spray perfume in a tissue and smell it until the smell dissipates.

Interesting and quite funny questions. If you have any questions that you would like answered please email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com. If you like please star and comments are welcomed.

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Wicked Wednesday( a bit graphic today)

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Hello my fire starters. How are feeling today. Well let’s get the match struck shall we.

Q: Fia my ex man has just popped up out of no where and tried to put the moves on me. Now I have been with my current man for three years and things are pretty good. It’s just weird that he thinks we could pick up where we left off. Don’t you think?

A: Nope, it’s not weird at all. The man remembers how the pussy felt. He wants that around him again, you feel me? You brought up your current man why? You are not taking him up on his offer but you did think on it. Especially since you stated, “things are pretty good.” Was your ex better at it? Your asking fia’s opinion on something that is not going to happen or do you want fia to give you permission to let it happen? You are your own person. Do what is right for you.

Q: Do you remember that movie when the mom walked in on her son getting a blow job? Well what do you do when you walk in on your daughter giving a blow job? I mean Holy hell.

A: I personally would walk in embarrass them both and screamed at her like she just committed murder. Now if she is grown, she should know better not to do it at mom/dad place. Grown people do at time slip up, but she would at least lock the door. Hormones kinda get over ridden by common sense, if she’s young like those kids in the movie. Your parenting judgement has to proceed. Did you tell her father and if so is the boy alright?

Q: I am a single father raising a girl. She just gotten her period and I almost flipped out. I called my girlfriend at the time to help me out with this. Her mother is not in her life before you asked. Now here is the thing. I went to get her some pads. There are too damn many to choose from. So I pick a few. I went to the register and the woman had a hard time ringing it up. Why? It is always the case when you buy personal products. Even condoms the register never rings up. Why?

A: I think they were pranking you. It does happen but I  agree that it always happen when you buy something personal. You can write a grievance to the store manager to fix this. But honestly it’s not the first time it happened and it wont be the last. On a positive note. Congrats now you have a young woman to contend with. Watch those pheromones, boys will be buzzing around.

Well I felt the fire today. Any questions you would like to ask please feel free to email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com. If you like please star. Until we meet again keep it burning.xoxox

Fia Heat Scale along with Announcement.

 

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Hello my fire starters. I love keeping you all up to date on what I am up to. I am in the process of editing my adult Novella called Verbal Seduction. It contains four of fia approved heat scales in the pepper world.

Level’s of heat

1= Carolina Reaper

2= Trinidad Morugo Scorpion

3=Butch T

4=Naga Viper( This is a pepper!)

The ultimate heat factor is the Ghost Pepper, which was not added due to the intensisty of it. Some can handle heat. Not many can handle the Ghost. Until we meet again. Keep the fire’s lit. xoxox

 

Talia’s truth revealed pt.13

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Hello firestarters. I am putting the disclaimer on top of the story. This has adult content and will go further into the D/s scene. If you are not 18yrs of age or are not into such graphic story line. Please close this and wait until next excerpt. Thank you.

Talia arrived at Julius place feeling as if she did the worst thing in the world. How could she do that to her friend? The anger that was irruptions inside of her was almost uncontrollable.

She opened the door and walked in. she didn’t see where Julius could be and honestly she really didn’t want to see him just yet. She might lash out unintentionally at him.

“Talia.”

Her name being called startled her out of her thoughts.

“Yes sir.” she said with her teeth clenched.

Julius was very good at reading people and he watched her come into the house. The way she walked as if she was on a mission and her shoulder almost up to her ears. She was gearing herself up for something. He was going to give is pet something to release all that energy.

“Take all your cloths off.”

“I..I..”

“No more speaking. Take all your cloths off.”

Talia took her cloths off with an attitude that she was not hiding.

“Talia, You need a safe word, because I know you are asking for what you will receive today.”

Talia slightly trembled. It wasn’t out of fear but out of rage. She kept opening and closing her hands as if she wanted to lash out.

“Your safe word is “spent”. Went you say the word I will stop. Do you understand? Nod yes if you understood.”

“Talia nodded yes her understanding.”

Julius stood before her with a black blindfold. He tied it around her eyes. Then he placed his hand on the back of her neck and guided her forward. They stopped in a room Talia has yet to see.

“Lift your arms and spread your legs.” She did as she was told and Julius strapped her to something cold . Her breasts were pressed against it and then he strapped her legs down. He tilted what ever she was on and was lifted slightly. Her back was towards him.

“Remember your safe word. You came in here ready to fight. Your anger was apparent and I will not have it towards me. Since you have this anger pent-up I will help you release it. Remember I am your Dom. I want what is best for you. Again remember your safe word.”

Talia heard him move and open a draw. He walked back and announced, “We will begin.”

She felt a slight sting on her bottom but it did not hurt. Then she felt another, then another until she felt her skin heat from the strikes. After the twelfth strike the tears began to flow and when he reached fifteen Talia called out “Spent” through heavy sobs.

Julius  lifted the wooden platform so she stood and un bound her hands and feet. She turned into him and sobbed. She trembled with every breath. He took the blind fold off and looked into her red eyes.

“Talia tell me what you are feeling.”

“I feel like I should have helped her. She didn’t deserve a suspension.”

“Is the suspension going to help her?”

“She said it would.”

“Then believe her. She is a grown person. You are not her savior. Now enough tears. Go to our room. I will be right there.”

Talia walked to the room exhausted from crying and the weight of having the responsibility of taking care of Maggie lifted off her. He was right she is an adult. She did not put responsible for her life. She layed down on the bed and started to doze off.

She suddenly felt cool hands on her warmed bottom. Julius started to messag something into her skin.

“This will help calm your skin from the bamboo. I left no marks. When you wake you will hardly see anything left. Relax and go to sleep.”

She did not know how long she was out but she was being awaken feeling aroused. Talia’s eye’s fluttered open seeing Julius laying next to her.

“Talia wake and please me.”

Damn his voice was deep and arousing. She climbed on top of Julius and rode him as if he was the ice pop and she was dying to cool off.

Talia felt Julius inside her tense a little. He was close and she wanted to cum with him. She reached down to stimulate her clit and Julius came before she could. But she continued until she did.

“Talia you have been very bad. I said please me, not your self. ”

Talia looked at Julius and he held a smile on his face.

“I’m sorry, sir.”

“Later tonight I want to see how sorry you are.”

“How sir?”

“By you giving me your tight hole back here.” He smacked her bottom.

Talia knew that was coming. Could she give him what he ask’s?

I hope you like where Talia and Julius is heading. I welcome comments and likes. Until next time.xoxox

 

 

Wicked Wednesday

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So I see my fire starters are seeing red. Oh my lets jump into the flames shall we?

Q: Fia normally I say what I feel and let who ever it’s meant for have it. The problem is it’s my mother. I am a grown woman with a job and no children(and no man). Yet she wants me to pay her rent, telephone bill and give her spending cash so she can go to the casino with her friends. How am I supposed to get out and live on my own if she’s sucking all my money?

A: Oh mama. It’s a shame that there are some parents that view their own children as the ATM. They figure it is time they pay them back. In reality they are creating a wall that was never there before. You should not curse out your mom but you do need to tell her that you are not giving her all that money. If you had no income where would the money come from? She needs to behave as if you’re not even there. You giving her rent is understandable if you are allowed certain freedoms that a tenant is allowed. No that is hard to swallow for them. If she does not see that you are serious, call in a counselor or minister to intervene. Someone she respects and would listen to.

Q: I do not know if its the heaviness of the heat outside or it’s people in general. I went to ask a coworker a question about something they did and I get chewed out and told figure it out myself. I was tempted to complain to the supervisor but maybe I am over reacting. What do you think?

A: Tell the supervisor. Be that snitch. Let me tell you why. Every one has a bad day. There is no excuse to take it out on you. And why you? If you confront them one on one sometimes it escalates into something that it didn’t need to. If you get you supervisor involved they would get the picture that, that behavior is not acceptable. Your coworker will either apologies or clam up every time you come near. Either way you would not have to deal with that any more.

Q: fia I have to tell you that I am a little appalled at the questions you receive and answer about sex. Why must everyone talk so freely about what goes on in the bed room? I just feel the problems we are having today is because of this openness of sex.

A: Ok that was not a question but I will answer it. Not every question is about sex. But human’s beings have sex! Sometimes it’s good and sometimes it’s bad. Often than most it’s ify. For you to be appalled is ridiculous. You have sex right? The problems we are having today is not all about the act of sex. It’s about how the sexes are communicating with each other. My opinion is that you should not live your life without some mind-blowing sex in it. It’s not all the time but it should happen often. It releases those feel good endorphin’s we all crave.

So I hope you like wicked Wednesday’s. Any questions you want answered  please email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com. I will gladly answer what bother’s you to the best of my ability. Until next we meet. Strike the match and let it burn. xoxox

Here’s the Burn. What am I Up to?

 

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Hello my fire starters. So I have been a little lax on Talia and Julius due to the fact I have been getting my book ready for you to enjoy.

This book will have four erotic tales that is sure to live up to the Fia Naturie’s standards of  hotness.

Of course you will all get a chance to purchase it once it becomes available. With that being announced. I will show what the hundredth follower will be receiving soon. So keep those eye’s open for what is to come.

Until next burn. Fia xoxox

Wicked Wednesday

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Hello my fabulous fire starter. I have picked out a few questions that deal with sensitivity. Doesn’t sound like it could be a burner but the match has been lit ladies and gents.

Q: Fia, so I have been trying to figure out a way, to nicely tell my girl that nothing she does increases the sensitivity to my nipples. I know some men get turned on to get them sucked on. But I am not one of them. How would you tell her?

A: Well she seemed to take this on as a mission hugh? Tell her like this, ” Babe you know when I suck on you and nibble and you let out the little noise you do. I do not get that same feeling and even though you have been really trying to get me turned on by it, it’s not working. So why don’t we not do that any more?” You are not the only man that has no sensitivity around the nipple.

Q: I have been noticing that there has been an increase of people on you tube (male) on how to get and keep your man. I can see that some advice is cool but not sure I am a believer. Would you take there advice?

A: I have an open mind and I would listen. You are the one who has to choose whether or not to take the advice. Just like my blog. Freedom to choose is your prerogative.

Q: My girl wants to try more experimenting in the bedroom. I just feel that the things she wants is not sexually appealing to me. I can not see her tired up. It conjures the image of rape. Sick right. Should I tell her flat out no and loose her because I know she wants more.

A: Listen being daring in the bedroom is perfectly normal. If tying your woman up reminds you of rape, I would suggest you go speak to some one. Maybe you were traumatized and you didn’t realize how much it affected you. You could have watched something in a movie perhaps when you were too young to realize that it was not real or you over heard something and it has scared you a bit. Nothing is wrong with seeking one on one help. (Sex therapist preferably)

Q: Ever since my divorce, I have had, quite a few sexual partners that I am not committed to. And I had no sexual problems. Now, I am seeing this woman, who I feeling more of a possibility of commitment for, and I can not seem to get aroused. What is going on? Is it Viagra time. I am only thirty four.

A: So the stallion is ready to go into the corral hugh. So here is the deal. The fact that you are thinking she is the one, the more your body is giving you negative feed back. No commitment positive, commitment negative. What ever happened between you and your ex has done a number on your psyche and all the sexual partners you had did not heal you. Viagra is a quick fix for now, but it is not the gold at the end of your rainbow.

Usually fear is the root to this evil. You just have to find out what exactly you are afraid of. Again I suggest therapy. (Sex Therapist)

So fire starters have I kept this fire burning? If you have a question please feel free to email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com. Until we burn again. Keep the fires lit.

W.T. FIRE IS THIS? A Gift?

imagesAKYZOPPAHello my fire starters. So I have some wonderful new for my 100th follower who ever that may be. There is a gift coming your way.

What can it be, your thinking and I say wouldn’t you like to know. Haha. Just think about who I am. What can I possibly give my 100th follower that has a bit of sensual fire to it? Hugh.

On that note I am at my 81st follower as of today and I want to thank each and every one of you.

You may feel that it’s not fair. But not to worry I will have other surprises in the works my lovelies. So Until Wednesday. Keep the fire burning.

Fia

Talia’s truth revealed pt11

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Talia went home and thought very heavily on the discussion she had with Louisa. She did make sense to her and yet she still felt like there are holes in a puzzle.

After she took a relaxing shower and changed into comfortable clothes. Talia called Julius to have a heart to heart. He answered after two rings and he sounded out of breath.

“Are you alright, Julius?”

“Yes, my pet. You caught me when I was working out.”

“You work out?”

He laughed while he was controlling his breathing. Trying to get it to a normal pace.

“Yes, I work out. I try to get something in three to four times a week. Now that is not the reason you called. What is it my pet?”

“I went over to Louisa’s house to talk.”

“Oh, when was this?” His tone changed slightly.

“It was earlier today. I am not keeping it a secret.” She said, as she waited for him to speak.

“Go on.” The phone seemed to gain weight in her hands as she spoke.

“She invited me over to talk, because she noticed that I was not that comfortable about what we did at the club.”

“Why didn’t you tell me? I told you I didn’t want secrets between us.” He said sounding a bit annoyed.

“I did not know how to bring it up without you being hurt. I had to sort this out first and she did enlightened me about things.”

“Should I be concerned Talia?” he asked.

Oh man he went back to calling her by her name.

“No. I am still yours. I just  have to come to terms with everything that you entail, that’s all. Are you upset?” She waited hoping that he would not be.

“I am not delighted but I understand that you need space and time to come to grip about my lifestyle.” His tone went from annoyed to calm and a bit tired.

“Is there anything you feel the need to know about me that makes you feel uneasy?” He was giving her an opening into his life. It was up to her to delve in.

“Have you always been this way? I mean have you tried a regular relationship?” Talia hoped he took it as a question and nothing more.

“Yes and they all crumbled miserably. Either I could not make them happy or they could never make me happy.”

“So you’ve always been a Dom, then?”

“I didn’t claim it early in life. I was with a woman who had a tendency to want to control things between us in the bedroom and yet act differently out side of it. I reached a point in the relationship, when I realized that I was not the type to be treated that way. I didn’t get off being told to do things. When I started having problems getting aroused then I knew it was not for me.”

She listened to him and then a thought occurred to her. “But you thought of me as someone to be controlled?”

“No, at first you seemed like you had a wall around you. But I remember something I learned years ago. That walls were not always built to keep people out. Some times there built, so people can not see what’s inside. When I suggested a book, you immediately hid behind a wall of “no’s and I am not into”. You protested so much you revealed more than you realized.”

She didn’t realize she was doing that.

“Are you still there pet?” He waited for to respond before continuing.

“Yes.”

“After I gotten out of that relationship, I did a deep soul-searching sabbatical. I refused to be with anyone until I was ready and knew what I wanted and who I was.”

“So I am your first sub?”

“Yes. I had seen someone before you and I found out that she was fake. She claimed to be a sub and turned out she was a switch. There is nothing in me that required to be dominated. Also, I found out she was taking the gifts I had given her and selling it. She would not wear anything that showed that she was with me. So when I was at the club with her, other’s would try to claim her. She did not go by the rules, actually she changed them at whim. When I confronted her about what was going on. She just brushed it off by asking me if I wanted to punish her. So I took the contract and terminated it.”

“How did she react?”

“Let’s just say I had a restraining order against her. I refused to go by what a person claimed to be. I follow my gut now and I found you. The last I heard she is with a dom in Chicago. I pity him. Is there anything else?”

“I wasn’t fully comfortable with having sex out in the open.”

“Can you tell me why?”

“I feel that it is a private thing between us that should remain private.”

“Were you ashamed of what we did?”

“I guess… Yes that word fits best.”

“Is that a hard limit for you?”

“Yes. I can not do that in a club.?”

“Hmmm. The club? What if It’s outside, or a room in a friend’s house?”

“I guess as long as I feel that no one can see us.”

“You see I do have a bit of a exhibitionist tendency. I can see how I can up hold your hard limit and at the same time pacify my wants. Now pet I have to return to my exercise. I will see you soon.”

Julius hung up the phone. leaving her to her thought’s. She really was falling for him hard.

“Girl it is time to have fun and not think so much. He must look sexy all glistening from his work out. Now I sound like a perv.” She said to her self.

What is going through Julius mind on how to pacify himself? Hmmm I would really like to know, don’t you? Now if you like how it’s going with Talia and Julius let me know. Star and comment.

Wicked Wednesday

 

untitledWelcome fire starters new and old. You know how I like to do things. The match as been struck. It starts out with a small spark then rages into an inferno.

Q: Fia the summer is almost over and I felt like I spent the whole time at work instead of enjoying the sun. Help me.

A: Do you go out at lunch? I know exactly what you are talking about. The sun has rejuvenating qualities and if you’re at work and you just look out side from your desk. Your not receiving that feel good rays from the sun. The imitation lighting just doesn’t cut. Take an hour for lunch and walk around and deeply breath. When you get off of work maybe two out of three days just drop everything off and go back out. See a movie, go the a park, or a pool. Just stay out as long as you can. It helps.

Q: My cousin just told me he had sex with two people at the same time. I don’t want to be a prude but why risk contracting something?

A: Well go ahead cuz. You can not judge what your cousin does in his private life. Not all people are as daring or adventurous as other’s (even though now a days that is mild). But you should not judge. It is not you in that situation. Your wrote me hoping that I will be on your side. But I am not. I feel that everyone should do what they feel is right to them. As for contracting something did he say he had unprotected sex? Again that is his roll of the dice. Don’t judge unless you are willing to be judged your self. Every one has something hidden under the sheets. (Wink)

Q: So went to my friend’s doctor and I have to say I will never return. Tell me if I am wrong. First the receptionist was had an attitude, for what reason I don’t know and I don’t care. Then I was called in twenty minutes after my appointment. That is not the half of it. When the doctor came in he started talking to me about my problem that I did not have. He was reading from someone else’s chart. Am I wrong to say I won’t be back.

A: No you are not. Their were too many signs showing you that what is good for your friend is not good for you. For a doctor to into the exam without confirming who you are if a real big red flag. It’s waving “run, run as fast as you can.” There is nothing wrong with getting recommendations from your friends but do your own research and investigating from now on.

Q Fia is porn really as bad as everyone said’s it is?

A: No. Everything is not for every body. You should watch adults instead of the kind that makes you question the age of some of these people participating in it. Watching it is a form of escapism. Instead of reading an x-rated books, your actually seeing it on the screen. Now obsessive watching of it is another matter. That’s when you need to seek counseling to find out why your addicted to it. But if it’s for viewing occasionally then I say go for it.

If you enjoy my advice and wicked wednesday. Please follow and star. Also any question that you have that you want answered. email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com.

Until next burn. Bye ,bye