Sorry my fire starters that you are getting this barn burner so late. But I aim to please so let’s get these questions answered.
Q:Fia I am stuck with this. I bought my girl this expensive bracelet for the holiday’s but I forgotten to get my mom something. I really didn’t expect to see her until after the holiday’s but she showed up. surprize. So should I give my mom the bracelet or give it to my girl? Either way I am gonna upset someone. Once the other sees the bracelet I will be in trouble with the other. Which one?
A: Neither. Tell them that it is tight with your finances right now and what you can afford is to take them both out to dinner. Then when your mom leaves give it to your girl. Problem solved.
Q: How do I tell him that he should go back to his wife? It’s not working out.
A: Oy vay. Be honest and just tell him that he should leave or you leave. You didn’t tell me much back story but it sounds like he is still in love with her and things just went sideways.
Q: I am torn between my girl of three years and the guy I have been seeing for a few months. I want them both but I don’t think that they both will go for it.Need advice.
A: So you willing to hurt two people because you’re not willing to be honest to either one of them? Listen sit down and really think this through. Is it worth loosing your girl of three years for a guy of a few months. If yes, cut her loose. If no, cut him loose. You can tell them both about each other and see what happens? Then your taking your own life into your own hands.
So that it for today. If you have any questions you want answered please email mea at fianaturie1@gmail.com. Until next time keep the fire burning. Fia Xoxo
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