Wicked Wednesday (Hmmm?)

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Hello once again fire starters. As you see on top I have a questions to be answered but will the answers satisfy the burn? Let’s get the fire blazing.

Q: Fia I started waist training and I have mixed emotions about it. What is your opinion on waist training?

A: Well let’s take it this way. Waist training in the past was to train your body to have that hour glass figure by cinching it up. Now this does cause your internal organs to shift. But that was the fashion in those days. Now today waist training is used in terms of losing weight. I am not really for it. Why ? You put it on to sweat and your supposed to take it off. Some people keep it on longer than what it was intended to be used for. Causing pain and muscle weakness.  If your just using it for style. Not for it either. It is not healthy not being able to breath do to it being so tight.

Q: I am a man in my thirties that is in good shape. My problem is my gut. It is out a bit and I cant do to much exercise because of back problems. What do you think about men having liposuction?

A: I personally feel fine with it. But it is really up to you, isn’t it? If they take out a large amount of fat, make sure you inquire about the elasticity of your skin. Don’t get rid of one problem for another. Also, how many time would you need to get it done? For it to be what you want and how safe is it to have multiple sessions? Yeah gave you more to think about and you should. Plastic surgery is something you should think on before diving into it. That’s my opinion.

Q: This is disgusting question but I find that I think about germs more now since I started riding the train and stopped driving. My question is how toxic is farts? I mean really people just let it go like everyone is ok with it.

A: Okay, I had to read this twice.(Due to the out burst of laughter) Flatulence (farts) are good for us . Sounds weird, but scientist have found that a compound we produce in small quantities in our gas, hydrogen sulfide, might actually protect us from later illness. So that smelly stuff is actually ok. Now lets discuss the stuff you may find on the poles or seats. That’s more dangerous. If you still don’t believe it you can spray perfume in a tissue and smell it until the smell dissipates.

Interesting and quite funny questions. If you have any questions that you would like answered please email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com. If you like please star and comments are welcomed.

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Fantasy Friday(Arriving on planet Anor)

 

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Lorac woke up startled by a loud sound overhead. He ran to the opening of his home, just in time to see a rusted, ship fly over. His heart was beating quickly. His mate had to be on the ship.

He went inside and sat still to center his emotions. He did not want to run out in front of everyone as if he was a child. He breathes in and out deeply several times to calm himself. He spoke to his beast in a neutral voice to keep it calm. When he felt that he had regained his composure he rose and gathered his staff.

His staff was made out of the finest Anorie tree, the core was made from the heart of the tree. What made it special was the fact that the staff can conduct the electric pulse that the Anorie chief creates to destroy its opponent.

He did not know what he was walking into, but he was ready for battle never the less.

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Jayla stood rigidly still on the bridge as they approached Anor. She knew her life was about to change and she had to get a hold of her emotions to handle such a monumental time in her life.

“Jayla are you alright?” the captain asked as he glanced her way. One of many times he noticed that she did not move from her chosen spot.

“Yes, captain.”

“Jayla come with me to my office for a moment will you.” The captain rose and walked to the right of the deck into his office with Jayla close on his heels. When he heard the door close he turned and looked at her.

“Jayla you do not have to do this. Just because someone said this is your destiny does not mean you have to follow it.”

Jayla stood still listening to what the captain said but she knew she had to go through with it. Her beast has been urging her to mate, since this whole escaped was started.

“Captain I know this is something I must do. I am being lead to it and I do not want to see my people exterminated completely. The scientist have done so with out the impending Oni on its way.”

The captain did not remove his stare. He knew she would do what is called for but why is she acting so unlike her self.

“If you are going through this than why are you so frightened?”

“I am not frightened.” She said as she shifted her stance.

“Ahh, yes you are. No more beating around the bush what is wrong? Is it the mating act or the fact that it will be done around strangers.?”

She looked away for a moment and he knew he hit it on the nose.

“Look every species has customs and you were raised by humans so our customs were rubbed off on you. Our way of being sexual behind closed doors is a custom that was ingrained in us but you are Anorie. When the time comes let your beast lead you. Relax and push the sight of the others away and focus on the mission. You are a soldier.”

Jayla thought on what the captain was telling her to do. She is a soldier. She can do this.

“Your right captain. I can complete my mission.”

He was happy that his pep talk helped. She was so still she almost looked as if she was going to crack under the pressure.

“Will you be there to witness the mating?”

“Not if you do not want me there. I and the other’s can stay on board.”

“I would prefer that. I need to take Elphin and Le’en with me.”

“I understand. Until the ceremony one of us will be with you at all times.”

“Thank you, sir.”

“No sir when we are alone.”

“Thank you, Macon”

Over the com the pilot announced to the ship that they will be landing in ten minutes. Jayla will do what is required of her and she will do what the captain suggested. She will let her beast lead her.

Well it is time for the meeting and mating. That will be posted later today, so make sure you keep an eye out for it. Any comments are appreciated and star if you like when the story is heading.

Wicked Wednesday

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Welcome back to Wicked Wednesday where the match is always lit. So let’s burn shall we.

Q: Fia I have been married for ten years now and I am still in love with my wife. What I am not in love with is the two piece bathing suit that she purchased over ten years ago. The woman does not see her body has changed over the years and the suit is not flattering nor will it survive another summer. How would you approach this? I am trying not to sleep on the couch.

A: Ooooo. You are going to sleep on the couch, my man. There is no sensitive way to approach this. You can get mini scissors and cut a  string off the seam which will cause her to give up on it and buy a new one. You tell her flat-out it’s not flattering you are going to be fired from the bedroom.

Q: My friend said that she had sex with this random guy and she does not regret it. She should feel a little regret right? At least worried she may have caught something.

A: You can not put your hang up’s on her. She wants to play in risky behavior you can not stop her unless she’s young and he’s way too old for her. Then it’s time to sound the alarm. But if she’s an adult, you can not tell her what to do. Eventually she’ll stop on her own or she’ll get a scare that will stop her.

Q: Topic is moisture. Too much moisture. After having sex with my partner I will actually leave a puddle behind. At first he was like yeah that’s right. Now he’s asking is something wrong. Is it bad that I produce too much fluid?

A: It is not bad unless you want to have children. You may flood those little guys out. Some woman just produce a large quantity of vaginal fluid when aroused. If you are concerned you can go to the gyn and they can run a blood test to see if your levels are ok. Other than that tell him wear speedo’s and put a split in it, if he can’t handle the ocean that is you.

So that is it for today my fire starters. If you have any questions feel free to email me at fianaturie1@gmail .com. If you like please start and subscribe. Love to hear from you. Until next time keep the fire burning. xoxox

Fantasy Friday (Preparation)

 

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After the new crew realized that Cam was shipped off literally. A tension that they held was let go. They did not like the way she manipulated them all to do what she wanted. They pledged their loyalty to the captain. That was what they needed to know.

Elphin informed Jayla of what he discovered about Le’em. Jayla did not know what a Godor was. She was just learning about the Anorie.

“So what does it mean that she is mixed with Godor? Her Anorie beast did respond to you right?”

“It barely woke. The Godor side also woke slightly, which probably explains why the Anorie did not fully awaken.”

“Elphin you are confusing me.”

” The Godor is the opposite of our people. Our kind. Our beast radiates electrical energy. The Godor is a natural grounder. It is capable of making our beast weak and immovable. We are natural enemies and she is carrying both.” Elphin said as he walked towards the food replicator and received water.

“So your saying that she is no good in a battle if we have to get into one?”

“I am not saying that because I do not know how she ended being captured since she her body houses two powerful beings.”

“Maybe you should test her. See if she could defend herself. You can take her to the cargo bay and find out. I don’t need to have someone I have to watch, when we make contact with our people. You are the only one I trust.”

“So why would you need her. There is nothing wrong with having more back up that you know personally.”

Elphin nodded his head and finished his drink before he left Jayla’s quarter’s. Once he left she closed her eyes to communicate with her beast. She started doing this a couple of day’s ago when Elphin advised that she get closer to it.

The beast was resting and seemed to not want to be bothered. Jayla decided to go to Red T and see how he was healing. She needed him at a hundred percent as well. He needed to tell her what the Oni was and how to defeat it.

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The red sun rose above the planet Anor. Lorac was feeling the fatigue of the watch. He wanted to exhaust himself so he could get some rest. His sleep was disruptive and he woke with anger and a cloudy mind, which is not an asset a leader should have.

Sanu walked up behind Lorac and bowed his head.

“Lorac you must get so rest. Fatigue shows on your face.”

“I plan to. Sanu if you see anything that is unusual in the sky. Please wake me.”

“Only ships from the scientist are in the sky. Are you expecting your mate today?”

“I am not certain but I want to be ready.”

“Well you need to get rest. Our females may find you attractive but your mate was not raised with our females. You need to be at your best.”

Lorac knew what he side to be true. He needed his strength for his mate. He left Sanu to guard the Anorie people below.

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The crews cabin looked the same as where they held him for lock up. Red T was not happy that his successor was killed by the scientist when they were captured. He did not want to live another millennia. He felt that space stretched to far and he spent all his life helping those that needed the help. Even if it meant that he would have to sacrifice himself.

He sat in the center of his bed, feeling the movements of the crew and he knew that Jayla was on her way to him. He felt much better and his power was returning but he wanted to free of this life. He wanted to find someone and finally make a connection that would not jeopardize their life. A successor is born once every five hundred years. He would have to survive until then. That did not sit well with him.

The door opened and Jayla walked through.

“How are you today?”

“Not dying. Thank you for rescuing me.”

Jayla nodded and walked over to the small table in the room and sat on the chair facing him. He looked a little aged from the last time they met.

“Ask your question.” Red T said.

“What is the Oni?”

“Ah, that is something I can not answer. Once you are mated a vision will come of the Oni and what form it will take.”

“What form it will take? Has the Oni been here before?”

“Yes. Over a hundred thousand years ago. It took the form of a Black Mass that crushed planets . My master before he died told me that before that the Oni came as a ball of flaming gas.”

“How were they defeated. Every planted houses specific species and they evolve when it is time to prepare for the Oni.”

“So the Anori’s have to take it on now?”

“Yes, your people were chosen.”

“Who chose?”

“That I can not say. But the path has been created and we all must go.”

Jayla stood to leave because she had no more questions but she felt that she needed to say something.

“I am glad you are safe.”

Red T looked at her quizzically. “Do you need energy?”

“I did not say that to receive something from you. Only to express that I am relieved that you survived.” The she left.

Red T quickly received a vision of a woman that is hiding. Was she his successor? No their is only one the be born every five hundred years. Who is this female? Why was he given a vision of her?

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Elphin took Le’em to the cargo bay with out telling her why. She felt uneasy since he was acting strangely. They stopped in an area where there was a lot of space.

“I told Jayla about your problem.”

“I do not have a problem?”

“You have two species inside of you and you think, you don’t have a problem.” Elphin said as he let his beast roam the surface of his skin.

“So what did she decide?”

“She can not have any abnormalities with her as she is fighting for the Anorie people.”

“Abnormality?So she is letting me go free then?”

“If that is what you want to call it. Yes she has set you free.”

Le’em seen that Elphins canines elongated. His hands curled in and claws was ripping through his skin.

“Are you going to kill me. Elphin?”

He was not answering, his beast has almost fully emerged from him. Le’em moved back. But the beast was tracking her. She was going to have to fight her way off this ship. Le’em adrenaline had awaken her beast. It had not stirred to life before. She did not know what to do. She spotted a door to her left. She needed to get there. Then she felt it.

Searing hot pain, across her left arm. Elphin’s beast landed it’s claws into her left arm. Le’em screamed and it started to sound like a roar than a scream. Her vision was shifting. The colors were turning black and white. Her gums hurt as large canines pushed themselves through.

Elphin’s beast roared it’s threat.

Le’em skin sizzled with heated pain as hair and claws made its way through. It took a few moments until the transformation was complete and both beasts stared each other down.

Le’em swiped her sharp piercing claws at Elphin which did not land. Elphin growled and prowled around her. Looking for a weak spot. She was an amazing specimen of an Anorie female he has seen. Her power rolled on top of her and the Godor did not appear.

Elphin jumped at her to get a bite down on the scruff of her neck but she leaped away before he landed. She did a low growl to challenge the male. Instinctual his beast knew what the growl meant and it was not a fight the female wanted. Once Elphin understood he walked away giving her his back to see if she would attack.

Le’em watched him walk away and she gave the image to her beast to attack the male. The beast sent back an image that stunned her. She needed he to get back outside her body. She seen that Elphin began to shift back. She did not know how, but she needed to return to the surface. Her heart was beating to fast.

Elphin walked to Le’em beast with hands raised in surrender. The beast allowed him close to her, not sensing a  threat. Elphin reached behind her ear and touched a spot that seemed to help Le’em resurface and for the beast to go in.

“What happened? Why were you going to attack me?” Le’em asked as she still sat on the floor trying to reorient herself.

“That was your first shift wasn’t it?”

“Yes”

“I was not going to kill you, just test your abilities.”

Le’em looked at him and Elphin looked a bit uncomfortable.

“What was the growl she emitted to you?”

“Your beast wants to be with mine. I have to go.”

Le’em remembered the image but she could not for the life of her understand it. It was not something she had ever seen before. Elphin helped her to her feet.

“I can not give her what she wants.”

“Because of the Godor?”

“Yes it may weaken me if it appears or kill me. I will let Jayla know that you may be an asset to her.”

“Elphin what does she want?”

Elphin turned away and walked out quickly. His beast reprimanded him for not taking what the female offered. He tried to relay why it was not good. The beast sent an image of another. It stopped him in his tracks. It made sense but can a little woman like her handle an Anorie and a Godor at the same time? Was he willing to share? Anorie males do not share with other males. This had to wait for another time. Right now he needed to report to Jayla and see if Red T would give Le’em energy she was depleted from her first change.

So the males did emerge. If you like the post please like and for you others who have not subscribed please do. Any and all comment are welcomed. Until next burn.xoxo

Fia Heat Scale along with Announcement.

 

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Hello my fire starters. I love keeping you all up to date on what I am up to. I am in the process of editing my adult Novella called Verbal Seduction. It contains four of fia approved heat scales in the pepper world.

Level’s of heat

1= Carolina Reaper

2= Trinidad Morugo Scorpion

3=Butch T

4=Naga Viper( This is a pepper!)

The ultimate heat factor is the Ghost Pepper, which was not added due to the intensisty of it. Some can handle heat. Not many can handle the Ghost. Until we meet again. Keep the fire’s lit. xoxox

 

Fantasy Friday (Januk Intervenes)

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The night has fallen on the planet. The birds sing their mating calls and the four-legged animals go on their hunt. All the Anori are bedded for the night except for Lorac. His beast is worried that it’s mate will never arrive.

Lorac scanned the skies to see if any new ships were flying above.  All ships were the same. They carried the scientist trying to locate the core strength of the Anori people. They have wiped out  thousands of their kind and spread the children of the Anori through the galaxy.

They believed they captured them all. That belief was wrong. Over a thousand Anori survived and the son of their leader, Lorac kept them together.

Januk watched from the doorway of her home. It was at the highest peak of the  mountain. A place where the scientist could not see and if attempted to climb would be the death of them. Human feet could grip the soil safely. Anori can partially shift their extremities to help them climb.

Januk was the seer of the Anori. that was all she had told them she could do. She did not what her people to fear and shun her as they did her mother for the real power she held. She walked in and closed off her dwelling with the blanket that she created from the  foliage. She went to the back of her home where the vibrations of the planet is strongest and sat before the vessel, she saved from her mother.

She was going to call upon the energy to guide the mate of Lorac to him. She seen her come to them but it is taking longer than she expected and she senses  Lorac’s beast uneasiness.

She said the words that she heard as a child to call the fire to life. It roared into existence. Then she poured the essence to the tumanu flower, the herds of anani and a drop of blood of a true Anori into the mixture. The blood was from the first Anori leader. Lorac’s fore father. Januk began the chant the words that no one has ever heard before, except her family line.

As the chant intensified she felt herself and her beast spirit leave the body they share to go and find Januk’s mate.

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Jayla was being to feel restless on the ship. The new crew the captain has on board did not take orders well and Red T recovery was slow even though he has awaken from the deep sleep.

Elphim had retired to his quarter’s after they returned on board with the female and the female was acting as if any moment they would harm her. She needed to speak to Red T about what was going on. She decided whether he was ready or not. She would speak to him in the morning.

Jayla laid down on her  bed to see if she could rest enough to get her beast to calm down. He eyes fluttered close and she could see her beast grooming itself. She felt something odd in her presence and so did her beast because it rose and roared at it.

Another beast appeared. It walked up close and showed its neck in submissive gesture. Jayla’s eye’s flew open to see a female that had no solid form before her.

“Who are you?”

“I am Januk. I have come to help you find your way to our people.”

“Why?”

“Your mate is waiting for you and the Oni will be upon us soon. We need for the mated pair to help lead and defeat the Oni.”

“I do not know where all of you are. I am just going by instinct.”
“That is the  way it should be, but I must help. Go to the cluster of Manu. Go to the planet that is housed between three planets. It is the only vibrant plant of the three. Be careful of the ships that house the scientist. They still seek our power.”

Jayla looked at the woman who’s eye’s looked as if they captured the universe itself in them. He hair was a sunset color and her skin was not easy to figure since she was a shimmer.

“It that your beast with mine?”

“Yes, she is letting her know that her mate will soon arrive and not to worry,”

“She is not worried.”

“She was worried. If she did  not find her mate she could lash out and cause her own death, which will cause you to perish as well.”

“Then I could mate with someone to stop that from happening.”

“You can only mate with whom you were chosen for. Come to us soon, your mate is waiting.” She shimmered and vanished and she felt her beast had calm down.

Jalya rose and went to the bridge. She seen the captain was looking over coordinates to another planet that would put then further away from where they needed to be.

“Captain we need to go the Manu. The three planets in is  where I need to be.”

The captain gave her look that would normally make her stand down but she did not have to take his orders.

“We need supplies. We have to make a stop first.”

“No stops. We go there and you get supplies or just drop me and the other’s off  on the planet.”

“It’s that important to get there now?”

“Yes.”

“Well I am sorry to tell you but the captain will go to that planet after we get out supplies. So go back and wait for your orders.”

The voice of Cam came from the right of the bridge.

“You are not the captain.”

“Neither are you.”She said smiling at her, then leaned down to give the captain a kiss that should not turn her stomach but it did.

“Captain is this what you wish?”

“He looked at her and nodded but something in his eyes revealed no.”

Jayla nodded and walked pass her but turned and let out a jolt of electricity through her into the woman and she fell.

“Thank you. We need to get her off the ship. She is trying to robbed the scientist cargo ship and escape leaving us to take the fall.”

“What do you want to with her crew?”

“They are my crew. We spoke and they do not follow her. She was holding something overt them to follow her.”

“Fine let’s put her in a capsule and jettison her onto the nearest planet.”

“Good idea.”

“After we must go to Manu.”

“We will.”

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Januk returned to her body and discovered that Lorac was standing before her.

“Why did you not tell me of your power?”

“I did not want to be cast aside as my mother. A seer is less freighting than and traveler.” She said as fear shown on her face. “Will you tell the other’s?”

“No, but you must be careful of what you do. Until I am mated I still have to show I can lead and if they call for your banishment I would have to listen to our people.”

Januk nodded her understanding.

“Where did you go?”

“To retrieve your mate. She will come to you soon. The Oni is still far enough away for you both to have a proper mating.”

Lorac nodded and his beast roared with happiness.

“Thank you Januk. Please sleep well. Trouble is still coming.”

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Le’em slept fitfully. Her Anori beast started to awaken and at the same time the Godor was being roused. It had kept the  Anori inside her at peace but it wanted out. It wanted energy. The energy it tasted from Elphin.

The Gordor quieted the beast  down again but it craved something as well. It needed a Godor.

Le’em woke with terrible pain and longing from both beasts. Why was she created with the two inside her and can she find what they both craved?

Ok my Fantasy Friday lovers. We are getting into the grit. Cam is getting tossed off. Jayla is going to her people. Le’em is struggling to keep under control. Januk is discovered. This is bout the females. Next excerpt Male’s are making a comeback. Oh man will it be something.

If you like what your reading give me  a like and follow. Tell a friend is a great compliment as well. xoxo

Talia’s truth revealed pt.13

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Hello firestarters. I am putting the disclaimer on top of the story. This has adult content and will go further into the D/s scene. If you are not 18yrs of age or are not into such graphic story line. Please close this and wait until next excerpt. Thank you.

Talia arrived at Julius place feeling as if she did the worst thing in the world. How could she do that to her friend? The anger that was irruptions inside of her was almost uncontrollable.

She opened the door and walked in. she didn’t see where Julius could be and honestly she really didn’t want to see him just yet. She might lash out unintentionally at him.

“Talia.”

Her name being called startled her out of her thoughts.

“Yes sir.” she said with her teeth clenched.

Julius was very good at reading people and he watched her come into the house. The way she walked as if she was on a mission and her shoulder almost up to her ears. She was gearing herself up for something. He was going to give is pet something to release all that energy.

“Take all your cloths off.”

“I..I..”

“No more speaking. Take all your cloths off.”

Talia took her cloths off with an attitude that she was not hiding.

“Talia, You need a safe word, because I know you are asking for what you will receive today.”

Talia slightly trembled. It wasn’t out of fear but out of rage. She kept opening and closing her hands as if she wanted to lash out.

“Your safe word is “spent”. Went you say the word I will stop. Do you understand? Nod yes if you understood.”

“Talia nodded yes her understanding.”

Julius stood before her with a black blindfold. He tied it around her eyes. Then he placed his hand on the back of her neck and guided her forward. They stopped in a room Talia has yet to see.

“Lift your arms and spread your legs.” She did as she was told and Julius strapped her to something cold . Her breasts were pressed against it and then he strapped her legs down. He tilted what ever she was on and was lifted slightly. Her back was towards him.

“Remember your safe word. You came in here ready to fight. Your anger was apparent and I will not have it towards me. Since you have this anger pent-up I will help you release it. Remember I am your Dom. I want what is best for you. Again remember your safe word.”

Talia heard him move and open a draw. He walked back and announced, “We will begin.”

She felt a slight sting on her bottom but it did not hurt. Then she felt another, then another until she felt her skin heat from the strikes. After the twelfth strike the tears began to flow and when he reached fifteen Talia called out “Spent” through heavy sobs.

Julius  lifted the wooden platform so she stood and un bound her hands and feet. She turned into him and sobbed. She trembled with every breath. He took the blind fold off and looked into her red eyes.

“Talia tell me what you are feeling.”

“I feel like I should have helped her. She didn’t deserve a suspension.”

“Is the suspension going to help her?”

“She said it would.”

“Then believe her. She is a grown person. You are not her savior. Now enough tears. Go to our room. I will be right there.”

Talia walked to the room exhausted from crying and the weight of having the responsibility of taking care of Maggie lifted off her. He was right she is an adult. She did not put responsible for her life. She layed down on the bed and started to doze off.

She suddenly felt cool hands on her warmed bottom. Julius started to messag something into her skin.

“This will help calm your skin from the bamboo. I left no marks. When you wake you will hardly see anything left. Relax and go to sleep.”

She did not know how long she was out but she was being awaken feeling aroused. Talia’s eye’s fluttered open seeing Julius laying next to her.

“Talia wake and please me.”

Damn his voice was deep and arousing. She climbed on top of Julius and rode him as if he was the ice pop and she was dying to cool off.

Talia felt Julius inside her tense a little. He was close and she wanted to cum with him. She reached down to stimulate her clit and Julius came before she could. But she continued until she did.

“Talia you have been very bad. I said please me, not your self. ”

Talia looked at Julius and he held a smile on his face.

“I’m sorry, sir.”

“Later tonight I want to see how sorry you are.”

“How sir?”

“By you giving me your tight hole back here.” He smacked her bottom.

Talia knew that was coming. Could she give him what he ask’s?

I hope you like where Talia and Julius is heading. I welcome comments and likes. Until next time.xoxox

 

 

Here’s the Burn. What am I Up to?

 

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Hello my fire starters. So I have been a little lax on Talia and Julius due to the fact I have been getting my book ready for you to enjoy.

This book will have four erotic tales that is sure to live up to the Fia Naturie’s standards of  hotness.

Of course you will all get a chance to purchase it once it becomes available. With that being announced. I will show what the hundredth follower will be receiving soon. So keep those eye’s open for what is to come.

Until next burn. Fia xoxox

Wicked Wednesday

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Hello my fabulous fire starter. I have picked out a few questions that deal with sensitivity. Doesn’t sound like it could be a burner but the match has been lit ladies and gents.

Q: Fia, so I have been trying to figure out a way, to nicely tell my girl that nothing she does increases the sensitivity to my nipples. I know some men get turned on to get them sucked on. But I am not one of them. How would you tell her?

A: Well she seemed to take this on as a mission hugh? Tell her like this, ” Babe you know when I suck on you and nibble and you let out the little noise you do. I do not get that same feeling and even though you have been really trying to get me turned on by it, it’s not working. So why don’t we not do that any more?” You are not the only man that has no sensitivity around the nipple.

Q: I have been noticing that there has been an increase of people on you tube (male) on how to get and keep your man. I can see that some advice is cool but not sure I am a believer. Would you take there advice?

A: I have an open mind and I would listen. You are the one who has to choose whether or not to take the advice. Just like my blog. Freedom to choose is your prerogative.

Q: My girl wants to try more experimenting in the bedroom. I just feel that the things she wants is not sexually appealing to me. I can not see her tired up. It conjures the image of rape. Sick right. Should I tell her flat out no and loose her because I know she wants more.

A: Listen being daring in the bedroom is perfectly normal. If tying your woman up reminds you of rape, I would suggest you go speak to some one. Maybe you were traumatized and you didn’t realize how much it affected you. You could have watched something in a movie perhaps when you were too young to realize that it was not real or you over heard something and it has scared you a bit. Nothing is wrong with seeking one on one help. (Sex therapist preferably)

Q: Ever since my divorce, I have had, quite a few sexual partners that I am not committed to. And I had no sexual problems. Now, I am seeing this woman, who I feeling more of a possibility of commitment for, and I can not seem to get aroused. What is going on? Is it Viagra time. I am only thirty four.

A: So the stallion is ready to go into the corral hugh. So here is the deal. The fact that you are thinking she is the one, the more your body is giving you negative feed back. No commitment positive, commitment negative. What ever happened between you and your ex has done a number on your psyche and all the sexual partners you had did not heal you. Viagra is a quick fix for now, but it is not the gold at the end of your rainbow.

Usually fear is the root to this evil. You just have to find out what exactly you are afraid of. Again I suggest therapy. (Sex Therapist)

So fire starters have I kept this fire burning? If you have a question please feel free to email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com. Until we burn again. Keep the fires lit.

W.T. FIRE IS THIS? A Gift?

imagesAKYZOPPAHello my fire starters. So I have some wonderful new for my 100th follower who ever that may be. There is a gift coming your way.

What can it be, your thinking and I say wouldn’t you like to know. Haha. Just think about who I am. What can I possibly give my 100th follower that has a bit of sensual fire to it? Hugh.

On that note I am at my 81st follower as of today and I want to thank each and every one of you.

You may feel that it’s not fair. But not to worry I will have other surprises in the works my lovelies. So Until Wednesday. Keep the fire burning.

Fia