Wicked Wednesday

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Hello to all my fire starters out there. We have three great questions that are just waiting to be lit up. Let’s burn.

Q: Hi fia so here is  what’s going on. I have a thirteen year old son who is in touch with himself. I know it is normal but I feel that I should have a man talk to him about things. I mean wouldn’t you feel odd having your dad talk to you about female issues?

A: Ok Mom. Let’s be open about things. Your son is masturbating and your uncomfortable about it. If you have a male figure to talk to him then that’s great. If not  there is a book called Sex, Puberty and All that stuff: A guide to growing up by Jacqui Bailey. It has good reviews and should answer any questions. Also tell him that he should be respectful and do it appropriate times. Example at night, or when no one is  home lock his door. You have to learn to knock and respect his privacy if you don’t want to walk in on him in action. Before I forget, I never felt odd addressing sex questions. Very open kid. I made adults uncomfortable. (catholic school)

Q: I share a room at school and my roommate it is a pig. I mean her crap has migrated into my space. It is taking all of me not to kill her. What do you suggest?  She is taking me past my comfort zone.

A: Calm down and get  the dorm head or leader. Not sure what the title is. If it can not be resolved peacefully ask to move into another room. If that is not an option you could get a garbage can and toss trash on her bed to prove your point that she’s a slob. Don’t do that really. lol. Best thing is talk first then try to get out if you can.

Q: I work with a lot of female’s with attitudes. Personally I have adapted to the situation as much as I can, since I am one out of three males here. Now yesterday the ladies were in a heated discussion about men and I was asked for my opinion. That should have been a red flag. But I answered the question and now all of them are giving me the cold shoulder and acting like we are in kindergarten. I need my job but I am about to cruse these women out. Do you see a better way to handle this?

A: They really set you up. Honestly you may have to get HR involved if what they are doing is jeopardizing your job. But try to talk to them first and clear the air. If that does not work. Go to the supervisor then Hr. (human resource). Good luck and don’t let them chase you off.

That’s it for this Wicked Wednesday. if you have a question you want answered you can email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com and I will answer it honestly and with a bit of fire thrown in. Until next we meet. Fia xoxox

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Wicked Wednesday

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Welcome back to Wicked Wednesday where the match is always lit. So let’s burn shall we.

Q: Fia I have been married for ten years now and I am still in love with my wife. What I am not in love with is the two piece bathing suit that she purchased over ten years ago. The woman does not see her body has changed over the years and the suit is not flattering nor will it survive another summer. How would you approach this? I am trying not to sleep on the couch.

A: Ooooo. You are going to sleep on the couch, my man. There is no sensitive way to approach this. You can get mini scissors and cut a  string off the seam which will cause her to give up on it and buy a new one. You tell her flat-out it’s not flattering you are going to be fired from the bedroom.

Q: My friend said that she had sex with this random guy and she does not regret it. She should feel a little regret right? At least worried she may have caught something.

A: You can not put your hang up’s on her. She wants to play in risky behavior you can not stop her unless she’s young and he’s way too old for her. Then it’s time to sound the alarm. But if she’s an adult, you can not tell her what to do. Eventually she’ll stop on her own or she’ll get a scare that will stop her.

Q: Topic is moisture. Too much moisture. After having sex with my partner I will actually leave a puddle behind. At first he was like yeah that’s right. Now he’s asking is something wrong. Is it bad that I produce too much fluid?

A: It is not bad unless you want to have children. You may flood those little guys out. Some woman just produce a large quantity of vaginal fluid when aroused. If you are concerned you can go to the gyn and they can run a blood test to see if your levels are ok. Other than that tell him wear speedo’s and put a split in it, if he can’t handle the ocean that is you.

So that is it for today my fire starters. If you have any questions feel free to email me at fianaturie1@gmail .com. If you like please start and subscribe. Love to hear from you. Until next time keep the fire burning. xoxox

Wicked Wednesday( a bit graphic today)

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Hello my fire starters. How are feeling today. Well let’s get the match struck shall we.

Q: Fia my ex man has just popped up out of no where and tried to put the moves on me. Now I have been with my current man for three years and things are pretty good. It’s just weird that he thinks we could pick up where we left off. Don’t you think?

A: Nope, it’s not weird at all. The man remembers how the pussy felt. He wants that around him again, you feel me? You brought up your current man why? You are not taking him up on his offer but you did think on it. Especially since you stated, “things are pretty good.” Was your ex better at it? Your asking fia’s opinion on something that is not going to happen or do you want fia to give you permission to let it happen? You are your own person. Do what is right for you.

Q: Do you remember that movie when the mom walked in on her son getting a blow job? Well what do you do when you walk in on your daughter giving a blow job? I mean Holy hell.

A: I personally would walk in embarrass them both and screamed at her like she just committed murder. Now if she is grown, she should know better not to do it at mom/dad place. Grown people do at time slip up, but she would at least lock the door. Hormones kinda get over ridden by common sense, if she’s young like those kids in the movie. Your parenting judgement has to proceed. Did you tell her father and if so is the boy alright?

Q: I am a single father raising a girl. She just gotten her period and I almost flipped out. I called my girlfriend at the time to help me out with this. Her mother is not in her life before you asked. Now here is the thing. I went to get her some pads. There are too damn many to choose from. So I pick a few. I went to the register and the woman had a hard time ringing it up. Why? It is always the case when you buy personal products. Even condoms the register never rings up. Why?

A: I think they were pranking you. It does happen but I  agree that it always happen when you buy something personal. You can write a grievance to the store manager to fix this. But honestly it’s not the first time it happened and it wont be the last. On a positive note. Congrats now you have a young woman to contend with. Watch those pheromones, boys will be buzzing around.

Well I felt the fire today. Any questions you would like to ask please feel free to email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com. If you like please star. Until we meet again keep it burning.xoxox

Fia Heat Scale along with Announcement.

 

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Hello my fire starters. I love keeping you all up to date on what I am up to. I am in the process of editing my adult Novella called Verbal Seduction. It contains four of fia approved heat scales in the pepper world.

Level’s of heat

1= Carolina Reaper

2= Trinidad Morugo Scorpion

3=Butch T

4=Naga Viper( This is a pepper!)

The ultimate heat factor is the Ghost Pepper, which was not added due to the intensisty of it. Some can handle heat. Not many can handle the Ghost. Until we meet again. Keep the fire’s lit. xoxox

 

Talia’s truth revealed pt.13

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Hello firestarters. I am putting the disclaimer on top of the story. This has adult content and will go further into the D/s scene. If you are not 18yrs of age or are not into such graphic story line. Please close this and wait until next excerpt. Thank you.

Talia arrived at Julius place feeling as if she did the worst thing in the world. How could she do that to her friend? The anger that was irruptions inside of her was almost uncontrollable.

She opened the door and walked in. she didn’t see where Julius could be and honestly she really didn’t want to see him just yet. She might lash out unintentionally at him.

“Talia.”

Her name being called startled her out of her thoughts.

“Yes sir.” she said with her teeth clenched.

Julius was very good at reading people and he watched her come into the house. The way she walked as if she was on a mission and her shoulder almost up to her ears. She was gearing herself up for something. He was going to give is pet something to release all that energy.

“Take all your cloths off.”

“I..I..”

“No more speaking. Take all your cloths off.”

Talia took her cloths off with an attitude that she was not hiding.

“Talia, You need a safe word, because I know you are asking for what you will receive today.”

Talia slightly trembled. It wasn’t out of fear but out of rage. She kept opening and closing her hands as if she wanted to lash out.

“Your safe word is “spent”. Went you say the word I will stop. Do you understand? Nod yes if you understood.”

“Talia nodded yes her understanding.”

Julius stood before her with a black blindfold. He tied it around her eyes. Then he placed his hand on the back of her neck and guided her forward. They stopped in a room Talia has yet to see.

“Lift your arms and spread your legs.” She did as she was told and Julius strapped her to something cold . Her breasts were pressed against it and then he strapped her legs down. He tilted what ever she was on and was lifted slightly. Her back was towards him.

“Remember your safe word. You came in here ready to fight. Your anger was apparent and I will not have it towards me. Since you have this anger pent-up I will help you release it. Remember I am your Dom. I want what is best for you. Again remember your safe word.”

Talia heard him move and open a draw. He walked back and announced, “We will begin.”

She felt a slight sting on her bottom but it did not hurt. Then she felt another, then another until she felt her skin heat from the strikes. After the twelfth strike the tears began to flow and when he reached fifteen Talia called out “Spent” through heavy sobs.

Julius  lifted the wooden platform so she stood and un bound her hands and feet. She turned into him and sobbed. She trembled with every breath. He took the blind fold off and looked into her red eyes.

“Talia tell me what you are feeling.”

“I feel like I should have helped her. She didn’t deserve a suspension.”

“Is the suspension going to help her?”

“She said it would.”

“Then believe her. She is a grown person. You are not her savior. Now enough tears. Go to our room. I will be right there.”

Talia walked to the room exhausted from crying and the weight of having the responsibility of taking care of Maggie lifted off her. He was right she is an adult. She did not put responsible for her life. She layed down on the bed and started to doze off.

She suddenly felt cool hands on her warmed bottom. Julius started to messag something into her skin.

“This will help calm your skin from the bamboo. I left no marks. When you wake you will hardly see anything left. Relax and go to sleep.”

She did not know how long she was out but she was being awaken feeling aroused. Talia’s eye’s fluttered open seeing Julius laying next to her.

“Talia wake and please me.”

Damn his voice was deep and arousing. She climbed on top of Julius and rode him as if he was the ice pop and she was dying to cool off.

Talia felt Julius inside her tense a little. He was close and she wanted to cum with him. She reached down to stimulate her clit and Julius came before she could. But she continued until she did.

“Talia you have been very bad. I said please me, not your self. ”

Talia looked at Julius and he held a smile on his face.

“I’m sorry, sir.”

“Later tonight I want to see how sorry you are.”

“How sir?”

“By you giving me your tight hole back here.” He smacked her bottom.

Talia knew that was coming. Could she give him what he ask’s?

I hope you like where Talia and Julius is heading. I welcome comments and likes. Until next time.xoxox

 

 

Wicked Wednesday

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So I see my fire starters are seeing red. Oh my lets jump into the flames shall we?

Q: Fia normally I say what I feel and let who ever it’s meant for have it. The problem is it’s my mother. I am a grown woman with a job and no children(and no man). Yet she wants me to pay her rent, telephone bill and give her spending cash so she can go to the casino with her friends. How am I supposed to get out and live on my own if she’s sucking all my money?

A: Oh mama. It’s a shame that there are some parents that view their own children as the ATM. They figure it is time they pay them back. In reality they are creating a wall that was never there before. You should not curse out your mom but you do need to tell her that you are not giving her all that money. If you had no income where would the money come from? She needs to behave as if you’re not even there. You giving her rent is understandable if you are allowed certain freedoms that a tenant is allowed. No that is hard to swallow for them. If she does not see that you are serious, call in a counselor or minister to intervene. Someone she respects and would listen to.

Q: I do not know if its the heaviness of the heat outside or it’s people in general. I went to ask a coworker a question about something they did and I get chewed out and told figure it out myself. I was tempted to complain to the supervisor but maybe I am over reacting. What do you think?

A: Tell the supervisor. Be that snitch. Let me tell you why. Every one has a bad day. There is no excuse to take it out on you. And why you? If you confront them one on one sometimes it escalates into something that it didn’t need to. If you get you supervisor involved they would get the picture that, that behavior is not acceptable. Your coworker will either apologies or clam up every time you come near. Either way you would not have to deal with that any more.

Q: fia I have to tell you that I am a little appalled at the questions you receive and answer about sex. Why must everyone talk so freely about what goes on in the bed room? I just feel the problems we are having today is because of this openness of sex.

A: Ok that was not a question but I will answer it. Not every question is about sex. But human’s beings have sex! Sometimes it’s good and sometimes it’s bad. Often than most it’s ify. For you to be appalled is ridiculous. You have sex right? The problems we are having today is not all about the act of sex. It’s about how the sexes are communicating with each other. My opinion is that you should not live your life without some mind-blowing sex in it. It’s not all the time but it should happen often. It releases those feel good endorphin’s we all crave.

So I hope you like wicked Wednesday’s. Any questions you want answered  please email me at fianaturie1@gmail.com. I will gladly answer what bother’s you to the best of my ability. Until next we meet. Strike the match and let it burn. xoxox

Wicked Wednesday

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OMG is it hot in here or what. The temperature rises and so does the questions. Let’s burn together shall we.

Q: Well hello fia. I have to say I enjoy the advice that you give for free on this site. Now here is my question. Smells. Not only do I have to deal with odors from strangers which I am amazed they do smell but to be next to a family member whose odor can burn your eye brows right off your face. Help. How would you approach that tactfully without being cruel?

A: Ewwwww weeeee. There is no tactful way of saying you stink. “Your deodorant walk out on you? Showers are really not your thing huh? I smell you every where you’ve been.” See there is no tactful way. But the thing is, it is your family member so you should be able to take them aside and say they smell if it’s that bad. It could possibly be a disorder of the sebaceous glands. Sorry could not be more help.

Q: I have a friend who monopolizes the conversation even though she is not part of  it. I need her to stop and advice.

A: Yes, every time she insinuates her voice in something that has nothing to do with her. All of you stop speaking. Then you say, “Sam it time for you to stop putting your comments in when no one ask you, it’s a bad habit you have. I am not trying to be mean but you do it often and it is really becoming annoying for all of us.” She/he may be made for a bit but eventually they will get over it and break that habit.

Q: Hi fia, I went to the doctor to get a skin tag removed. I get many of them and I get them removed with no problems. My doctor has in formed me that I could have skin cancer because of this spot she noticed out of the blue. She wants to biopsy it. My question is should I get a second opinion? I don’t want to have a biopsy to find out it’s just how my skin is. What do you think?

A: Hello, here is the answer. You can get a second opinion. But if both agree have the biopsy. I am not a doctor but I know it is not something to play with. If it’s nothing count your blessings and if it’s something get treatment to stop it. I hope it is good news.

Here’s the Burn. What am I Up to?

 

untitled    YUP It’s COMING!

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Hello my fire starters. So I have been a little lax on Talia and Julius due to the fact I have been getting my book ready for you to enjoy.

This book will have four erotic tales that is sure to live up to the Fia Naturie’s standards of  hotness.

Of course you will all get a chance to purchase it once it becomes available. With that being announced. I will show what the hundredth follower will be receiving soon. So keep those eye’s open for what is to come.

Until next burn. Fia xoxox